sex

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Registered: 05-09-2005
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Mon, 05-09-2005 - 4:10pm
I'm married man with two kids and wife, my wife seems to me never realy interested in sex any more this has been going on for about 7 years now or more not sure i lost trax.. when we do have sex she's seems no-interested or if interested she gets off 1st and wants to be done.. i want more.. she don't like getting on top, or changeing positions. i think she just wants to get it over with.. she works two jobs takes care of the kids and cleans.. but so do i do everything that she does and then some.. i work 50 to 60 hrs week and help with kids stuff and house stuff , i cook,clean,laundry,keep the carts clean, i also do gardening and what ever else that can be done, i don't drink or smoke, i have found that the only time she realy wants sex is if she was drunk then sex getts better then the normal.. what is wrong with me or her or ????? help signed very stressed out lonley man...

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Avatar for katmandoo2001
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Registered: 03-26-2003
In reply to: junior34
Tue, 05-10-2005 - 6:10pm

Make an appt. and go with her! This isn't just HER problem, it's a problem within the marriage.

And btw, could you please release the caps lock key? That's the equivalent of yelling on the board.




Edited 5/10/2005 6:19 pm ET ET by katmandoo2001
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Registered: 04-23-2004
In reply to: junior34
Tue, 05-10-2005 - 6:28pm
In one of your posts you said she had childhood issues.

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Registered: 01-07-2005
In reply to: junior34
Wed, 05-11-2005 - 2:37am

<<>>

No truer words have been said, (and I'm a female). After hearing NO for almost 6 years along with me begging, pleading, crying, and demanding, all the while changing who I was, I finally decided my life/future was worth a lot more than fighting for intimacy. Divorcing (and breaking up the family) him was the hardest thing I have ever done.

I miss marriage, however I thoroughly enjoy who I am now, along with being with someone who can "do" me everynight (if his back is up to it) LOL!

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Registered: 08-12-2004
In reply to: junior34
Wed, 05-11-2005 - 9:28am
Thank you onushopper. I needed to hear that. It has been over 6 years now, and everyone has adjusted well. But I still have an internal battle almost every day. I know and feel that I am much happier now, but will always regret having to break up a family. I don't think that ever goes away.
Congratulations to you on making a good decision for yourself and your children.
Divorce is not pleasant, but living happy and teaching our children, by example, to live for their own happiness is the only way to be.
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Registered: 04-23-2004
In reply to: junior34
Wed, 05-11-2005 - 9:41am
You might always regret having to break up a family, but IMO.....it's better and

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