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| Sat, 01-15-2005 - 3:32pm |
I have a question for you all. My boyfriend is abstinent and I'm not close to being a virgin....this doesn't bother him at all, thank god! Anyway....Drew and I were foolin around the other night...going crazy over where to put me in my dorm room and positions to get in while he was goin down on me. It was amazing...he has never ever done that good before! One question is, the next day my vagina kinda hurt, could he have sucked on it to hard, or done to much to it? The lips hurt to even touch!
One other question....I don't have a gag reflex and I can deep throat him....but I cannot swallow him...I usually use a towel or something, but one night I tried and it made me sick. He really likes to be swallowed, but I just can't do it. I wasnna make him happy, any tricks I could do to swallow him w/o throwing up?
Brit

Hi
If it was the taste that made you sick I have heard that changing your BF's diet to less meat would make it a little more sweet(I think). If you get sick from the texture, smell, or the act of swallowing then I am not so sure. Maybe its a pychological thing, I don't know. I'll ask around.
mb
I can only that your purpose for mentioning that you deepthroat him is because you try swallowing deepthroat. Again, just a guess. If that IS the case, then I don't believe its that easy for your human ability to control that gag reflex attempting to use those same muscles to help you swallow.
Basing this on what info you've shared thus far. If you have trouble with the taste or consistency of the semen, then I've heard of some tricks that have helped others, somewhat. Otherwise, even if you feel you don't have a gag reflex, that MAY be a different story as you try to swallow during deepthroat. Keep that in mind.
Now, are you sure it was your that was hurting after he went down on you, or was it actually your vulva? (vagina inside, vulva with the lips outside, right?) Unless this is a really bad pain that lingers and lingers or unless you've noticed damage such as bleeding, then I'd guess that he may have just gotten a little rough as you suggested and that the numbing nagging pain would soon go away. Time will tell, obviously if it seems worse, DON'T WASTE ANY MORE TIME and get to that doctor! Okay? Okay.
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Greettings from Bellina,
Well,luv if your not comfortable as you say swallowing,avoid deep throating and just
take less of him that far back in the throat.If he cares about your feelings,he'll respect your dislike of this,just stimulate him orally and use control with your fingers to prevent a gag reflex.It's good to communicate this early into an intimate sexual relationship,where you've formed a loving connection and trust on such issues.If he really
loves you he'll respect your wishes.Also as regarding your discomforts,the outer lips can be very skin sensittive,suggest to talk to your obgyn and get some inflammatory cremes,helps to lessen discomforts.Also chat with your fellow and say you love him pleasuring you,just to be gentle,no roughness or perhaps teeth! Hope this helps.bellina