Sex after period pain?
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Sex after period pain?
| Sun, 11-28-2004 - 1:08am |
I have two questions...
Have you ever had sex just because you wanted to but knew you weren't properly stimulated before penetration??
Is it common for women to feel a bit of uncomfort after having their period for a week (without sex) and then when you do have sex it kind of hurts??

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1. No, because that's when you have pain and discomfort. If your partner wants sex, then he'd better take the time to stimulate you, otherwise he's just being selfish, thinking of his own gratification. If it's just a matter of lubrication, that can be fixed with adding lube, but if he just jumps in without taking the time to arouse you, then he needs a reality check. You're not there just to please him, it's supposed to be mutual pleasure.
2. Abstinence shouldn't cause pain. It's possible that right after your period, because of hormone fluctuation, that you're not lubricating very much, and again, easily fixed. I was once abstinent for 12 years.....and there was no pain when I did it again.
>>Have you ever had sex just because you wanted to but knew you weren't properly stimulated before penetration??<<
Yes, when I want a quickie or want it "a bit rough". It could be somewhat painful at first... depends if you "enjoy pain" or not. If I'm in the mood for "pain" then after the initial painful sensation, I get very turn on and become very lubricated. I guess it's kind of like spanking, sometimes that hot rough sensation on the butt cheeks is a turnon for me. If I'm not in that kind of mood, then I won't have intercourse without being well stimulated.
>>Is it common for women to feel a bit of uncomfort after having their period for a week (without sex) and then when you do have sex it kind of hurts??<<
Unlike the previous posters, it can be a bit uncomfortable for me to have intercourse after being abstinent for a period of time. So, yes, sometimes I find it a bit uncomfortable having intercourse after period (if we have no sex during period). Just go gently and slowly and lube can help.