Sex and body.

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Registered: 01-21-2007
Sex and body.
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Fri, 02-16-2007 - 1:51pm
Right, I feel like when the time comes for me to have sex it won't be enjoyable for my b/f. I feel so because of the way my body is. I'm tiny and I just feel I won't be enjoyable for him. I'm 5 feet 1 weighing 102 pounds. My b/f well he's tall and bigger. He told me that he thinks I'll be scared of his body cause everything on him is big. Meanwhile I'm like tiny for my age. I'm 22 years old. I wish I wasn't so tiny. What can I do to overcome this feeling I have inside me?
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Registered: 12-12-2006
Fri, 02-16-2007 - 11:54pm

Size has nothing to do with whether or not sex will be good. Knowledge does. Your general size means nothing. The only thing that matters is your vagina.....and with proper foreplay, you will relax, you will be well lubricated, and there won't be a problem. Your vagina can stretch to any size it needs to, within reason. Your vagina can stretch enough to allow a baby to come thru it, and I'm sure he's not as big as a baby!

Unfortunately, if you feel this way, then your body will not be relaxed, and you may have problems......but there's nothing you can do about it besides NOT having a preconceived notion that it won't work. If you feel this way....then you're right, it won't work. You need to understand how your body works, and what makes it work. There is lots of info on the internet about it....and a good place to start is www.the-clitoris.com

Look around.......there are lots of petite women who are with average or large men. They don't have problems....and you won't either, if you educate yourself.

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Registered: 04-23-2004
Sat, 02-17-2007 - 9:31am

You overcome the feelings you have by


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Registered: 01-21-2007
Sat, 02-17-2007 - 12:02pm
Ok.
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Registered: 10-30-2003
Sat, 02-17-2007 - 9:23pm

Sounds to me like there is a enough of you to handle him!

Have you seen him yet?

You may want to tke things into your own hands to get the lay of the land so to speak. LOL

He may be a legend in his own mind! LOL

A petite woman can be very nimble. You may want to be on top so you can control the action untill you are more comfortable with your abilities/ capacities. There are several sites on the web that can give you more information.

I think you will be soo fine.

Good luck!!

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Registered: 01-21-2007
Sat, 02-17-2007 - 11:58pm
Wo wo wait now what do you mean? Explain.