Sex and Drugs and Al-co-hol

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Registered: 03-31-2007
Sex and Drugs and Al-co-hol
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Wed, 03-05-2008 - 9:14am

Sex and Drugs and Al-co-hol



  • I usually drink before having sex.
  • My SO usually drinks before having sex.
  • Both of us usually drink before having sex.
  • I am usually stoned when having sex.
  • My SO is usually stoned when having sex.
  • Both of us are usually stoned when having sex.
  • I usually do some combo of drugs/alcohol prior to sex.
  • My SO usually does some combo of drugs/alcohol prior to sex.
  • We both usually do some combo of drugs/alcohol prior to sex.
  • Neither for us, thank you very much!


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Registered: 02-17-2008
Wed, 03-05-2008 - 9:32am

Misty,


I guess because we're well past the age where we need to experiment with drugs/alcohol, but would state that if you had another bullet to put down the occasional glass of wine/spirits I guess that's really where we'd fall.

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Registered: 03-08-2004
Wed, 03-05-2008 - 9:42am

My vote was *Neither for us, thank you very much!*

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Registered: 03-31-2007
Wed, 03-05-2008 - 10:10am
I do wish there had been more options available. Of course, someone can choose that they "drink" and then explain it. It has a negative connotation the way it's mixed in this poll, but really, it could be anything from 1 drink to too many drinks.




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Registered: 03-31-2007
Wed, 03-05-2008 - 10:14am

I think it's a great sign when someone can remember all of their hangovers (or lack thereof). I know I've only had 3, and none for many, many years.

While there have been times I've been tipsy and had sex with my tipsy partner, there's nothing more of a turn off than a drunk trying to woo a sober person. As a matter of fact, I find it difficult to deal with drunk people in any setting.





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Registered: 08-19-2007
Wed, 03-05-2008 - 11:43am
I chose "neither." DB does not drink at all - he's not a tee-totaler, he just doesn't like alcohol. I only drink with my friends and never more than enough to just get a buzz. I've been drunk exactly once, and I'll never let that happen again. Bleh. I like to have wine with dinner occasionally, but only if we're at a restaurant - I hate drinking alone at home, even if he is with me. He doesn't care if I drink, but it makes me self-conscious.


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Registered: 02-04-2008
Wed, 03-05-2008 - 2:06pm

On occassion we'll have a drink before sex but it's usually with dinner or desert or something and is certainly not something we have to do and we don't drink to get drunk.


He has drank Champagne from me during sex

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Registered: 05-04-2007
Wed, 03-05-2008 - 4:06pm

I find drinking & sex to just be a cruel joke. Two or more drinks & I get more forward & less discriminating. It turns that "filter" off, lol. But then at the same time it numbs things & makes the whole experience uneventful & tedious. So I rarely drink at all if sex is an option that night, & bf doesn't drink. The pot is another story. =0


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Registered: 04-17-2002
Wed, 03-05-2008 - 7:38pm
Umm neither of us drink really, well, ever. I mean occasionally like New Year's Eve he was drunk but I was designated driver because I had to work in the morning. Plus neither of us is 21. Well he will be in June, so we'll see what that brings I guess. Neither of us are big drinkers. As for drugs, I experimented with pot like twice in my entire life and those were this past summer. So we HAVE had sex while drunk/stoned but it's not something we practice anymore or regularly. I didn't like being high and he grew out of it. I think he used to be more into it when he was in high school though.


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Registered: 02-28-2006
Wed, 03-05-2008 - 8:11pm
Neither for us, thank you very much. Like Tish, neither of us do drugs, and although we do both occasionally have a drink or two I honestly can't remember the last time either of us was drunk. I also think sex is more enjoyable straight, and one of my hard and fast rules is "never drink and dominate". When I tie DW up I'm taking responsibility for her safety and well being, and I need to be 100% in possession of my faculties in order to do that.




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Registered: 10-15-2006
Wed, 03-05-2008 - 9:32pm

I agree Misty....and there needed to be an "other" option

Mrs P

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