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Sex and Period
| Thu, 04-19-2007 - 11:19am |
So, this weekend will be the first time my new guy and I have sex. Here's my thing: I had planned this trip so that I wouldn't have my period while on vacation, but I was late (very stressed out at work!) and ended up getting my period this week, but thankfully it's almost gone. I know he's really into giving oral, but that is not going to happen if I'm spotting. Do guys even care if a girl is on their period when they have sex?

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I've found IC to be very uncomfortable during my period, sometimes extremely painfull so we have to obstain. DH prefers it to because he gets faint at the sight of blood. He always passes out when he sees his own blood and if he doesn't get away fast enough, he has passes out seeing others bleed too!
It depends on what guy your talking about, some guys want no part of it, some are turned-off by it, some it doesn't bother at all.
Welcome to the board diana. It really does depend on the guy. I would suspect that if you are at the end with just light spotting that it probably won't bother him at all to have intercourse. I have always been uncomfortable with oral during my period. DH doesn't seem to mind either way. One of the products on the market (Instead) actually goes up inside of you and catches anything before it can come out. I use those often during my period and find that anything goes. I usually put the Instead cup in prior to having a shower. That way I know that I'm all clean.
I also find that if my period has just ended, having sex will usually make it reappear for a short while. If that does happen, the Instead cup will keep that from making a mess too.
I have bought them at a pharmacy like CVS, but they can be difficult to find (not in every store). They are with the sanitary products. If they are inserted correctly, then no they will not be felt during IC. It does take some practice to get them inserted correctly. Luckily, you can practice with the same one over and over ... just rinse it off inbetween. (You can only rinse and reinsert when initially putting it in, do not rinse & reinsert after you have been wearing for a while -- they can not be reused.)
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