Sex and Period

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Registered: 04-19-2007
Sex and Period
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Thu, 04-19-2007 - 11:19am
So, this weekend will be the first time my new guy and I have sex. Here's my thing: I had planned this trip so that I wouldn't have my period while on vacation, but I was late (very stressed out at work!) and ended up getting my period this week, but thankfully it's almost gone. I know he's really into giving oral, but that is not going to happen if I'm spotting. Do guys even care if a girl is on their period when they have sex?

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Registered: 11-15-2006
In reply to: diana0207
Fri, 04-20-2007 - 6:19am
Actually the diphragm is more dome shaped and definately softer and more flexible. I guess that is why I found it easier to use. Hmmn, if you have insurance I bet it is cheaper in the long run to get one and use it only as a barrier during your period. All I do is use a little lube on the rim to help insert it and when we are done I take it out. When used as a BC you would used spermicidal jelly and leave in 6 hours after sex to prevent pregnancy. The just wash and store in it's case. Also I think a diphragm woul dbe more comfortable for some since you have to be fitted for your size by an ob/gyn.



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Registered: 03-31-2007
In reply to: diana0207
Fri, 04-20-2007 - 7:08am
Welcome to the board mrmtwags. Thanks for joining in.


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Registered: 04-19-2007
In reply to: diana0207
Fri, 04-20-2007 - 10:26am
I sort of already told him. I say "sort of" because I was so stressed out at work yesterday that I had a little meltdown when talking to him and I just blurted it out! He asked if I was afraid that we wouldn't get it on since I had my period and I said I was more concerned with his gross factor. He didn't seem to care that I had my period so I freaked over nothing (especially since it looks like I'm not on it any more)!
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Registered: 03-28-2007
In reply to: diana0207
Fri, 04-20-2007 - 10:42am
This is a toughie. Since this is a new guy you haven't been with it's kinda of ify. Do you know this guy well enough to talk to him about this or maybe its too early. But if your towards the end of your period maybe sex in the shower or start foreplay in the shower and end it in the bedroom?
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Registered: 04-19-2007
In reply to: diana0207
Fri, 04-20-2007 - 10:57am
We're still getting to know each other right now. He actually brought up going in the shower, so that's definitely an option. I'll be more comfortable starting off with in the shower anyway, since I'll be able to clean up a bit in case I still have any spotting by tonight.
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Registered: 03-31-2007
In reply to: diana0207
Fri, 04-20-2007 - 1:47pm
Welcome to Let's Talk About Sex


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