Sex from behind

iVillage Member
Registered: 07-05-2004
Sex from behind
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Mon, 07-05-2004 - 5:47pm
Hello,

Me and my partner really enjoy sex, only position we struggle with is doggy style, with him coming from behind.

I am a couple of years older than my partner and have had sexual relationships before him and i havent found this a problem but I am my partners first sexual relationship.

We can't manage to get the right height or anything. It may be because he is smaller in height than my previos partners, i dont no.

Is there any tips or advice you could give me? Is there any positions we could do first then move into doggy without him pulling out?

Thanks for your help :)

iVillage Member
Registered: 03-13-2004
Mon, 07-05-2004 - 8:44pm
....if doggy on all fours is not working...try lying down...even with pillow under your hips....then he can still go inside you from behind, but then height or angle aren't so much of an issue, because he can go where it works best!
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Registered: 05-27-2004
Mon, 07-05-2004 - 11:23pm
Every new partner is a new learning experience. What you did before is different from what you'll do now. If he's too high, then raise yourself. If he's too low, then lower yourself. You can stand in front of him with your hands on the bed, or couch, or whatever you're near. You can get on all fours on the bed.

Find a different place, or a different way. Half the fun of sex is experimenting, to see what works. If it seems impossible, then don't do it. There are hundreds of postions, and not all of them work for everyone.