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| Tue, 12-13-2005 - 3:39pm |
Just curious how many, if any, of you out there have been to a sex club where you can go alone or with a partner to just watch, participate, or be watched. What was it like, especially if you went with your partner?

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Not me, never been to one and
i have 2 couples who have told me about these sex clubs.
One is a place that you go to, a home and there are sexually
willing people there and you can pick who you want to be
with, and go into a room and do whatever you want. This
acquanitance of mine said she went to one with her hubby,
cuz in the past she found out her hubby cheated on her, and
it was kinda a payback, but the hubby was willing, and he
even went into another room with a new gal.
Also another couple wanted to watch other people orally
satifsy their partners, and they said they each chose
a person of the opposite sex, and the people gave them
oral sex as they both watched eachother being orally
satisfied by strangers.
Hey, the clubs are out there and some may be different
than others, but they are out there.
Thank you for posting such a good question and think it is a good fit for this board. We have not been to a club, yet but have done some research. It is a good idea to do some research before contacting and going to the club. Reason being, each club is different and serve different clientels. Some may cator to single men whereas others prohibit them. Other clubs may have bi nights, single woman nights, CD/TV/TS, greedy girl nights, and other type of nights. So knowing something about the club will help you plan your attendance, identify any questions you may have for the club, and give you a very broad impression if this is a club you would want to attend. Once you have decided to attend the club, contact the club before attending to find out their policy regarding newbies, in regards to attendace to the club and find out if they have any dress codes. By doing this you will avoid any initial akwardness or uncomfortableness by just showing up. Not to mention some clubs will have a screening process before they let you in the first time so it is a good idea to bring anything they need.
Once in make sure you follow the rules explicitly especially if you are a single man. No need to embarass yourself or get yourself banned.
My Husband and I have been to a number of clubs and have always had a good time,He took me to our first club about seven years ago and we like the voyuer part of the club since we don't share each other.You would never guess the people who are there would ever be there because there are a variety of ocupations and just your every day people.We have been to clubs in non-English speaking countries and the owners of the clubs made us feel very welcomed along with the other guess.The clubs we go to are no pressure have great food and its something you will NEVER for get so give one a try.Get to the club early eat dinner and enjoying the music and dancing if your club has that because that will make you more relaxed and you get to meet some great people.The clubs are great for women since we can feel safe and express our sexuality with no judgement.
In the 70s and earlier oral sex was taboo now its the norm so this is not in area of taboo,its also not if your fullfils you of not and somebody needs more like one guy said,its about be with open minded sexually free people.
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