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sex crazy
| Sat, 06-26-2004 - 12:37pm |
im 42 and boyfriend is 46, we have been together 6 yrs, well bf likes to drink and smoke dope, and cause of this, sex is the last thing on my mind with him, he says without sex than im not worth anything to him, we argue all the time cause of his habits, and it has came between us, but he says only cause i let it borther me, but he hurts no one doing as he does, he gets free dope from friend and friends sister,bf likes to get drunk and smoke dope and than drive his car, hes been doing it fr yrs, well i cant just ignore it as he says i should ( not bitch at him ) if i love him, he likes to do this and have sex the next day, but its causing problems between us and he dont care, and says im messed up in the head cause i bitch at him over it, i dont know why but his habits are a turn off to me , and sex and our relationship is drowning cause of it

You're not his keeper, and you can't change his habits. Since he's TOLD you that without sex, you're useless to him, If I were you, I'd tell him he's right, and that he's useless to me......and he shouldn't let the doorknob hit him on his butt on the way out! ADIOS!
My opinion on this is,
The drugs and drinking isn't really the issue. I'm sure that they don't help him think clearly but they are just a side issue and something that distracts you from the real problem. The real problem is that the guy doesn't care about you anymore. He's not interested in what you have to say or even in trying to to make you feel good. Most men at least try to make their woman feel wanted and treat them nice once in a while. He's not even close to doing that.
So what HAVE you got with this guy?