Sex during period....
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Sex during period....
| Mon, 10-31-2005 - 10:00pm |
My boyfriend recently suggested that we have sex during my period because I get really horny during it. He's done it before with his last girlfriend - i've NEVER had sex during my period, nor did I ever think I would. I'm willing to consider doing it - but I want to know the ins and outs of it. Isnt it messy? I dont know how I'd react to it - it kind of freaks me out, although i'm willing to try it - and hey, I might even like it!
You experienced ones out there - fill me in. I'm not sure how I feel about this...

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Dh and I have sex when I'm on my period, whether it's day one of it or the last day, if we're in the mood, we do it.
I was on my period and told my guy before we even met. He said "it is fine", we hadn't been together for a while so we thought it wouldn't matter. However, once we were making it, and me on top, all the blood started coming down (sorry TMI). It was gross and turn us off inmediately. We couldn't continue, it was very messy and we felt very conscious about it. I didn't like it, he didn't even touch me and made me feel dirty or something.
I've personally never had a problem before
It's JUST blood, not nastiness. This is a normal monthly process and if you have that mindset, then you'll be less likely to overreact to it.
Try doing it missionary so that it drips out under you, preferably on a towel or two, not over him. And wait until after the first couple of days so that it's not so heavy.
And once again, there are other ways to enjoy one another that don't involve penetration.
Just for the sake of adding another vote, I'll throw my 2 cents in and repeat what the others have said: throw down a towel and go for it! LOL
I have sex on my period all the time now, because I heard from another messageboard about this product called "Instead". Its so awesome, you put one in right before you have sex and not even a drop of messiness. Also, my guy can't even feel it. Its also designed to be used in lieu of tampons or pads for the rest of your period, but I just use it to have clean sex during that time. Check out their webpage, it explains all about how it works for clean sex. http://www.softcup.com/sex_main.php
I wish I knew about this thing years ago! Hope that helps.
Oh and I buy them at the drugstore or Walmart.
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