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Sex with ex??
| Mon, 07-10-2006 - 4:09pm |
I need some advice! I am recently divorced (marriage was dead long before), and I have been in contact with an old flame for a few weeks now. We used to date in high school, I lost my virginity to him, and we've kept in touch for the past 10 years. Before I was married and whenever we were both single, we would hook up on occasion and the sex was so good! I went over to see his new apartment last night and we talked, made sexual remarks but nothing happened. I don't have any feelings for him other than we have a history, we've always been there for each other, and he makes me want to jump his bones! I thought about asking him over tonight to see where things lead. I just want sex, and we've done this before as friends and before I was married. Should I go for it?

You can do whatever you want but why would you want to? IF you're trying to separate yourself from someone emotionally, financially and physically, why would you continue to have sex with that person? Seems counterproductive to me. Particularly if your goal is to start a new life.
But as Sugar said, you may know yourself and your own feelings about it, but do you know HIS? That's the question.