Sex as a houseguest

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Registered: 11-02-2005
Sex as a houseguest
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Wed, 11-02-2005 - 7:12am
What do you think about having sex while you are a guest at someone's house? My wife and I recently were in that situation and wondered if it's improper, rude , or acceptable. We had our "own" room while there. What do you think?
iVillage Member
Registered: 04-23-2004
Wed, 11-02-2005 - 7:32am
We've always kept our noise level down so we wouldn't be heard but I don't see anything wrong with having sex being

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iVillage Member
Registered: 07-26-2005
Wed, 11-02-2005 - 10:32am

There's sex, and there's sex. If you're the type of couple that makes a lot of noise, bangs the headboard against the wall, etc., then that would probably be embarassing for everyone in the morning. However, if you can keep the decibel level down, so that the whole house doesn't have to hear it, why not?

It would probably also depend on the length of the stay. If it's one or two nights, I'm sure you could survive without. If it's a week or two, then go for it.

Discretion is the key! You're married, and I'm sure they know (or assume) that you're sexually active, but like most of us, they really don't want to KNOW it's going on.

iVillage Member
Registered: 12-20-2004
Wed, 11-02-2005 - 12:37pm
I dont see anything wrong either as long as you are discreet...Also, you might try and keep the mess to a minumum..Remember your host is going to wash those sheets after you leave.
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Registered: 04-23-2004
Wed, 11-02-2005 - 4:21pm

I have always stripped the bed, collect the bath


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Registered: 05-18-2005
Fri, 11-04-2005 - 11:59am
Ok...I hope you don't mind if I share your post with you and put a spin on the question. What about if you are watching someone's house for them? Not necessarily "doing it" in their bedroom but in the guest room etc. And yes...the linens would definitely be washed and changed. Is this ok or unacceptable?
iVillage Member
Registered: 12-20-2004
Fri, 11-04-2005 - 12:27pm
freespirt, sure why not? Sex isnt this big mistic thing that is rare and is a mysterious activity. There are 6 Billion people on earth, millions of people are having sex as you read this post...Go for it..lol
iVillage Member
Registered: 04-23-2004
Fri, 11-04-2005 - 12:39pm
Sure, why not.

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