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sex hurtt why??
| Sun, 12-26-2004 - 5:15pm |
hey
i haven't had sex for a while and the other nite i did. we were using a condom but no lubricant. i know though i was very wet so it wasn't like dry or hurting when he entered me. but once he was inside of me and moving i felt an awful pain in my stomach. like it was on the right side of my stomach. the pain was coming and going n i dont understand wht it was. hes pretty big maybe he was going to far in? when i went on top i didnt feel any sensation it was sort of boring.
help
i haven't had sex for a while and the other nite i did. we were using a condom but no lubricant. i know though i was very wet so it wasn't like dry or hurting when he entered me. but once he was inside of me and moving i felt an awful pain in my stomach. like it was on the right side of my stomach. the pain was coming and going n i dont understand wht it was. hes pretty big maybe he was going to far in? when i went on top i didnt feel any sensation it was sort of boring.
help

Edited 12/26/2004 6:33 pm ET ET by canchaserchic
If you haven't had sex for a while things happen. If last time you had sex before the break you didn't hurt; then then it could be one of three things.
Have you been exercising?
Was your bladder full.
Was the sex energetic.
Exercsise can tighten and firm up your plevic floor, vaginal and stomach muscles and you add a penis into the mix ouch. (ouch).
A full bladder can push on the g-spot the place that gets lots of action when you are on top or doing it doggy style (ouch).
Energetic sex can simply give you the stitch (ouch).
My man is well endowed and sex after a bit of a break can involve lots of lubricant slow movements and foreplay or he isn't allowed to touch me. I have litterally screamed in pain not becouse he was doing anything to hurt me but my muscles were that tense. The best cure though is freqent sex and an empty bladder.
Good luck