Sex Initiator

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Registered: 01-16-2006
Sex Initiator
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Mon, 01-16-2006 - 10:50pm
When is it appropriate to initiate sex? I am dating a guy who is very shy and I want to take the relationship up to another level. Can I initiate sex and how, without looking slutty? Thanks
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Registered: 07-26-2005
Mon, 01-16-2006 - 11:33pm
Is he shy, or is he just not ready for sex? You need to talk to him about it before you start something that he may not be interested in. YOU may want to take it to another level, but don't assume anything about what he wants. If you can't talk about it, then you're not ready for it either.