Sex-- Love? Or just for Fun?

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Registered: 08-03-2004
Sex-- Love? Or just for Fun?
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Tue, 08-10-2004 - 11:32pm


I am a loving person but………..

Why is it that the (just for fun) always leaves when you get to love?

Does the love, stop us from doing things that we like or want, because we are scared of the love getting damaged?

  

   who_reallyknows

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Registered: 05-18-2004
Tue, 08-10-2004 - 11:38pm
I am not sure what you mean ...

Leticia

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Registered: 05-27-2004
Tue, 08-10-2004 - 11:54pm
Are you saying that sex is fun, but once "love" comes into the picture, the fun is gone? If that's what you're saying, that's very sad, and either you've never been "in love", or you're doing something terribly wrong.

When there's love in the picture, sex should still be "fun", and when you're committed to someone, it should be better than it ever was.....when it was just a physical exercise.

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Registered: 08-03-2004
Tue, 08-10-2004 - 11:55pm
You’ve never been in a relationship that is hot, (smack your ass hot), and then things seem to go to (what over the sink? Are you crazy?). People tend to either act a little wild at the start, or they slow down for some reason. I wonder which it is. Wild at new, or Do they just stop themselves from doing what they like for sake of what their partner will think of them? Or does it just not seem as exciting when you think you can have what you want when ever you want it?

  

   who_reallyknows

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Registered: 05-18-2004
Wed, 08-11-2004 - 1:42am
If the couple doesn't want it to fade, it doesn't have to. I think if anything, it has gotten better for me over the years. I am very comfortable with my husband and feel free to fully express myself sexually. If the relationship is only about sex, I see how it could get boring after the newness fades.

Leticia

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Registered: 04-23-2004
Wed, 08-11-2004 - 8:07am

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