Sex with New Person

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Registered: 10-15-2004
Sex with New Person
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Mon, 11-08-2004 - 4:34pm
First time having sex with a new person:

1) what goes through your mind when you are doing it or about to do it?

2) do you do anything to prepare for it?

3) what signs do you give the other person you are ready?

4) are you nervous about it? do you worry about your body or your performance?

5) what factors make you decide the time is right (don't give advice, just tell what your own personal factors are)?

6) for the first time with a person do you want hot & ravaging or slow & sensual?
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Registered: 10-13-2004
Mon, 11-08-2004 - 6:15pm
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Registered: 10-15-2004
Mon, 11-08-2004 - 7:02pm
1) what goes through your mind when you are doing it or about to do it?

i think about what it's going to be like; what the feel of a different body will be.

2) do you do anything to prepare for it?

not really

3) what signs do you give the other person you are ready?

lots of flirting, touching, talk gets more sexual in nature

4) are you nervous about it? do you worry about your body or your performance?

depends on the person; if it is someone I really like and could see long term potential with then i am apt to be more nervous about it

5) what factors make you decide the time is right (don't give advice, just tell what your own personal factors are)?

I just go with the mood of the evening and the feeling

6) for the first time with a person do you want hot & ravaging or slow & sensual?

slow & sensual; hot & ravaging will come later

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Registered: 10-18-2003
Mon, 11-08-2004 - 7:12pm

1) what goes through your mind when you are doing it or about to do it? -- lots of things, but for me with dbf (first time w/him was about 8 mo ago ... only my 2nd man ever) it was a lot of "gee, i'm still attrractive" mixed with lots of "oh this feels good its been so long" and lots of anxiety because my xh was the only other man i'd ever been with

2) do you do anything to prepare for it? -- nothing in particular; got back on bc, lol

3) what signs do you give the other person you are ready? -- ummm, pulling out the condoms? telling him I was back on bc? sending him ecards of barry white singing "lets get it on"

4) are you nervous about it? do you worry about your body or your performance?

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