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| Sat, 07-09-2005 - 12:56am |
me and my boyfriend have been going for a year and 4 moths now.
he was my first acrtually, but whenever we have sex....i dont feel anything !! and he also cant ejaculate with sex. we both prefer oral.
is there something wrong ??
Edited 7/9/2005 1:25 am ET ET by xdannix
he was my first acrtually, but whenever we have sex....i dont feel anything !! and he also cant ejaculate with sex. we both prefer oral.
is there something wrong ??
Edited 7/9/2005 1:25 am ET ET by xdannix

Ok, first of all, you both prefer oral....THAT is sex. If that satisfies both of you, then you're both happy, and there's nothing wrong. Everyone is different, and everyone likes different things.
When you say you have no feelings during sex, you mean intercourse. That is also normal....because most women don't have "feelings" or orgasms from intercourse alone....that's because there is very little feeling inside your vagina, and because your vagina isn't your main sex organ, your clitoris is. That's why you like oral sex because you're getting clitoral stimulation. You can also get it during intercourse by him or you stimulating the clitoris at the same time. Different positions can also stimulate it....like woman on top.
If he can't finish during intercourse, then he can do it himself afterward, or you can do it manually or orally.
Don't worry about what anyone else does. If what you're doing works for you, that's all that counts. Enjoy it.
Hi xdannix:
1-The vagina has few nerve endings beyound the first 2 inches.
2-8 out of 10 women orgasm thru manual or oral stimulation of the CLITORIS; NOT sexual intercourse.
3-A woman may take 30 minutes to get sexually aroused. A guy should learn to satisfy his woman 1st!
4-Sex should be about being close (physically and emotionally) to your sex partner. ORGASM SHOULD NOT be the goal of sex.
5-Your guy probably has learned to ejaculate thru masturbation. He will have to retrain his sexual RESPONSE to ejacualte thru sexual intercourse.
Mac