Is sex for procreation alone?
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Is sex for procreation alone?
| Sat, 08-25-2007 - 7:58pm |
My wife of 5 years thinks so. We have only made love when we wanted to have our two children. I used to think that this would change. But it has not.
I have a very high libido. I try to channelise by working very hard at my job, at home, with children, cleaning, cooking, washing, anything that keeps me occupied. Yet sometimes I get aroused, but feel guilty when I masturbate.
I dont want to destroy my family or hurt the innocent children. Are there any chemicals that can reduce the libido? Because sub-consciously I do resent my wife.

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Number one you got my quote wrong, I know you meant to say " it won`t be easy."... Number two I know of no religion where sex is for procreation only. Not moslem, not jewish, not budda. It is her own belief ,I believe. She is being selfish, whether it is on purpose or not..
You said," 1st of all, you just can't change religious beliefs like you might change dietary or spending habits".... Sure you can. Many people grew up 'believing" sex is for marriage only, only to have premarital sex, and plenty of it. I am a firm believer that anything a person believes and be undone through conscience thought and conviction...... Ask many rape victims who at one time thought they would never have a sex life again. They can, but it is easier for some than for others.
Edited 9/18/2007 7:00 pm ET by humpdaddy
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