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| Sat, 05-19-2007 - 6:22pm |
how do you encourage your SO to have sex in public. whenever i suggest something, he never wants to.
and whenever i ask if he'd do it with me somewhere he always makes it sound like he'd only do it in the bathroom. like sex in the library instead of hidden somewhere, he'd go in the bathroom,but i feel like if you hide in a bathroom it doesn't count!
any idea on losening him up a little?

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Sex in public? You could get arrested for that! Do you mean "public" bathrooms? UGH, do you know how filthy those places are? When you say the "library"......do you mean the public library? You're really asking for problems with things like that, and I don't blame your b/f for not wanting to do that.
Find yourself a deserted beach......or an off the track spot in a wooded park. But no matter where you are, if anyone sees you, you could be in big trouble with the law.
We did it today on a bench right along the track of an isolated very beautiful rural park. We were just running on the path and then we came up to that bench. It was so quiet that we pretty much knew we'd hear anyone coming along. Plus I'm not sure, once we got going, if I really cared. Not something I would have EVER done before this bf. It was kind of cool with birds softly chirping, everything was so green. Just in running clothes, not a hot outfit or anything.
(It was pretty funny, today for some reason i was deepthroating really well, absolutely all the way -- some days it works much better than others -- and he was watching with amazement and he goes, hmmm, I think you have a crush on me or something!)
I think it's much wiser to have sex at night in a public place!
Just because there's less chance of getting caught!
I have done it in the day and at night and I have to say
night is better all the way around, also it should be something
you both want. Because when a man gets nervous or uncomfortable
there's a chance he can't perform any ways. If you pressure him
about this he might get turned of in general when it comes to sex.
Be careful with this . You can plant the seed but that's about it.
That's my 2 cents
Kareese
very true everyone. i would never push him, but i'd just like to have sex outside, there are many hiding places.
and by bathroom i mean public
and by library, i mean our college library which everyone has sex in.
he's only up for library bathroom and movie theater (and that seems to risky to me)
Welcome to the board, ihaveaboner! Gotta love that name ;-)
Do you have any "sex in public" experiences to share with us?
my partner in the siggy exchange
I personally love the "thought" of having sex in public places, and that certainly feeds into many of my fantasies. In my reality, the perfect public place is one where there is a slim chance that we could get caught, but not a huge likelihood that we will get caught, kwim?
I do know that library sex in college is fairly common. I have also had sex in a couple of bathrooms.... Once, in a college co-ed dorm bathroom (very drunk, very hot!), and another time in a mens shower room (stall) at a camping facility. I was standing both times, so the "yuck" factor wasn't too huge. The time at the camping facility had a much higher risk factor as it was a busy place, and many men knew I was in the stall with my BF. I think in general, guys don't care as much -- and luckily, there were no children in there at the time. I was also young then -- don't think I'd do it again today.
More recently, DH and I has sex (standing) on a hotel balcony looking at the ocean. While there was a chance someone could be walking along, look up and see us, it was at a time when the beach was not very crowded or busy. It was like "possibly public" since we had our room to duck into also.
I think your BF is trying to meet you on this, perhaps if you experience a place that he is comfortable with, then he will get more adventurous. I know personally, there are tons of public places that I would love to have sex, but it's not likely that I would follow through on most of them given the opportunity -- because of the legal implications.
my partner in the siggy exchange
yeah. it's not like i'm going to do it in the middle of a huge feild or something. we''d hide somewhere and probably be wearing something where you can just sneak in kinda. i'm not going to take all my clothes off and have to go running.
a side note is that he got caught by a cop once parked somewhere with a girls pants off. don't know if i said that yet, but yeah...he gets freaked out now. lol.
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