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Sex in the shower?
| Thu, 08-16-2007 - 11:27pm |
After the other night, my guy is SO anxious to try new things all the time, which is fine with me. We have the house to ourselves tomorrow night, and he's been talking about showering together. Again, fine with me. Any tips or suggestions for having sex in the shower/bath. Also, will the water have any affect on the strength or performance of the condom? You were all so helpful last time, and I'm looking forward to the advice now too.. :) Thanks in advance ..

Sex in the shower or bath can be a lot of fun, but you might have some problems with height if you have a great difference there. Especially standing in the shower, make sure you are not on a slippery surface. If your shower is in the tub, sometimes putting one foot up on the edge of the tub can make a slight adjustment in height too.
The water won't affect the condom; however, there may be a lack of lubrication. Water will wash away the natural lubrication for both of you. While you can use a lube, make sure it's safe for use with a condom. You could try to put the condom on out of the way of the water flow, and hopefully it has lubrication as well. Once you get started (him inside of you) then the water won't affect lubrication for either of you.
Of course, cleaning each other in the shower or bath makes foreplay awesome!
If you use the bath, try adding bubbles. They create their own sensations and add to the fun. The bubble solution also makes a great lube if you want to try having breast sex in the tub too. Just have fun and experiment. Even if you can't get intercourse to work there, you will have a lot of fun getting ready for it!
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Edited 8/17/2007 10:28 am ET by dreamergrl610
I have gone to a strip club with my DH a few times, and found it enjoyable. If nothing else, people watching is a blast!
You're not the one on stage, so you can wear anything that you feel comfortable in. Since it's a date and you want it to lead to sex, I would probably wear an outfit that I would go clubbing in.
Couples usually get a lot of attention at strip clubs, so prepare yourself for that. You might want a drink or two to relax, but I wouldn't recommend over indulging. A lot of people do things they might not normally do under those circumstances, and being in a strip club will give you plenty of opportunity. Maybe talk with your BF before hand about what you want from this experience.
Do you want either of you to have lap dances? As a couple, or individually? You will get a lot of offers from the dancers, so set your ground rules before you go there, and before you start partying.
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