Sex in Shower?

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Sex in Shower?
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Sun, 04-01-2007 - 11:13pm
My b/f and I took a shower together a couple of days ago. This was the first time we've done this since we've been dating. Honestly, I've never taken a shower with a guy, but I have to say it was really fun. Anyway, we tried having sex in the shower, but it was difficult. My legs got tired when we tried to do it. Is there an easy way to do this? It's hard to do anyway b/c it's tough to be lubricated enough in the water, but I know that people do this and we'd like to try again. Any suggestions?
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Registered: 12-07-2006
In reply to: ktbear632
Mon, 04-02-2007 - 12:33am

Sex in the shower can be difficult if it's a small shower, but a lot of fun if you succeed. I love having sex in the shower--something about the soap and water is a huge turn on for me. At my house we have one really big double shower with two different heads and sprayer jets along the sides, so it makes it easier and fun to experiment with more than one other person (my record is me and three others...lol). But anyway, there are a couple of different positions to try in a regular shower that seem to work, but take a little strength. Have your guy hold you up against the wall and slide down on his manhood, or stand on the edge of the tub and lean down on him. Lubrication can be a problem, but I'm usually so turned on I'm okay...but I'm sure you could use like an oil based lub to keep you going. Or just get a guy who can go and go even after he cums, and let him cum inside of you and use that as lubricant.

Lauren

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Registered: 06-07-2006
In reply to: ktbear632
Mon, 04-02-2007 - 8:46am
Yes, sex in the shower can be VERY exciting, but it can be very difficult also. I think the best advise I can give you is to keep your genital away from direct contact with the water. If you're taking an actual shower together, then you can try a water-based lube (don't like oil-based, that's why I said water-based). I heard that this water-based lube (unlike other water-based lubes) called J-Lube can be used when engaging in sex acts involving water.
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Registered: 03-31-2007
In reply to: ktbear632
Mon, 04-02-2007 - 9:42am

KY has a lube called Intrigue. It is water based, but requires soap to wash it off. It has a wonderful, silky feel and lasts for a LONG time -- well worth the money, you can find in on sale or at the smiley face store for about $15.

DH and I can't really accomplish sex in the shower because I am too short. We do a lot of foreplay in there, and that is great fun with just soap. Just be sure not to get soap inside of either of you as it can burn.






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Registered: 08-25-2006
In reply to: ktbear632
Mon, 04-02-2007 - 12:40pm

Shower sex is ace.

But I have had bad experiences. I fractured my foot once, while having shower sex. I'm really bendy, and I had my foot like four feet up the wall, and somehow it got fractured. I was in Paris, and had to limp around for the rest of the weekend. My boyfriend at the time didn't mind, though he thought I was exaggerating. It was only when I got back to England and had some X-rays done, that he believed me.

My current boyfriend and I also like sex in the shower. Something about the soap and steam. We've found that it's easier in smaller showers since there's more to brace yourself on. In bigger showers, you're falling all over the place.

Sex in the bathtub is hard though!

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Registered: 03-27-2007
In reply to: ktbear632
Tue, 04-03-2007 - 7:51pm
Any DWs ever try a water massage on DHs balls whle giving him oral? Unfortunately this is only a fantasy at this point, but here's to hoping....
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Registered: 03-31-2007
In reply to: ktbear632
Tue, 04-03-2007 - 11:16pm

Hmmm, I might be afraid that would drown me :-) I have used the massage on DH a bit, but I can't imagine that I could hold that on his balls while giving him a BJ -- just seems like I don't have enough hands.

It's a good fantasy though!





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Registered: 04-04-2007
In reply to: ktbear632
Wed, 04-04-2007 - 12:22pm

Sex in the shower can be great, and warm on a cold day/ night! Plus it is great if you are at all squemish about body cleanliness or odor after a long day. We find it works best with the man behind. The small shower is great as ther are lots of ways to brace yourself.

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Registered: 03-31-2007
In reply to: ktbear632
Wed, 04-04-2007 - 3:33pm
Welcome to the board alease. I'm Misty, and I hope you decide to stick around.




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Registered: 04-20-2007
In reply to: ktbear632
Fri, 04-20-2007 - 7:05am
when i had sex in the shower for the first time i had my vibrator with me so he inserted it first mind you we were both sitting on the ground which is easier cause u can spread ur legs to let him see what hes doing and its also an easier and more affective way to stimulate your clit!!!! use a condom which has some lubrication on it still and you sit on him that way it not only goes deeper but its easier also