Sex in the shower??

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Registered: 08-03-2003
Sex in the shower??
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Sun, 07-18-2004 - 4:34pm
hi... my boyfriend was in the shower and (go figure, haha) contemplated us trying sex in the shower. do condoms work in the shower alrite? and wut about lube? also in the past, i've tried just messing around in the shower, and it didn't do nething for me, mainly i think the water sorta messed w/ my natural lubricants and it didn't seem to be a turn on. has anyone tried it? can't it b sorta dangerous, presuming it should probably be standing up.. but i also figure we should try standing up in the bedroom prior to the shower. so if anyone has any advice on any of the above, please let me know! thanks!
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Registered: 05-18-2004
Sun, 07-18-2004 - 5:56pm
I've tried it. Without a condom works, but don't be directly under the shower because it rinses away the natural lubrication. With condoms, we gave up. The condom was really grippy, and got downright unccomfortable trying to have sex.

Leticia

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Registered: 07-05-2004
Mon, 07-19-2004 - 12:31am
i enjoy having sex in the shower with my BF. we dont use condoms or lube or anything but like the other post said dont be right under the water. my BF is much taller than me so its really hard to do it standing up but you kinda have to just get a certain position. he normally lifts me up. but we enjoy it, try it and see how you like it.

Crystal

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Registered: 05-21-2004
Mon, 07-19-2004 - 10:54am
i LOVE shower sex!!

it can be a challenge and definitely potentially dangerous! so do be careful (and sober!)...but what usually works for us is getting really soapy with glycerin soap (doesn't get that real soap stickiness, ya know?)- and he takes me from behind...i usually bend all the way over so i can hang on to the edges of tub.

altho this weekend we actually tried laying down (me on top)- that was too hard, and so i just kind of sat right on it...

it was certainly fun for me, but because of the narrow tub i couldn't really get my legs on either side of him so my clit could get a lot of action...but it was GREAT for him-

i also really like giving oral in the shower...gives my hands access to all parts of him and he really likes watching and it gives him a great vantage point!

but again other than slipping all the hot and steamy can mean you get lightheaded...so be careful!

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Registered: 04-13-2004
Mon, 07-19-2004 - 1:10pm
My hubby just bends me over and we have shower sex doggie style. I agree that the water makes me less lubed as well, but not so much that we can't enjoy it. Try having him perform some oral on you in the shower. That should get your juices going. We don't take any lube into the shower at all. My hubby likes to use a lot of soap on us - that is another way to get more excitement going. Soapy bodies feel and look very sexy! Just be careful you don't get any soap inside your vaginal area as that can really burn if you're having sex at the same time.
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Registered: 06-17-2004
Mon, 07-19-2004 - 1:56pm
Some of the best sex that I ever had was in the shower!

It started out from behind but then I ended up on the floor of the shower with him giving it to me so hard that I was sliding all over, the water spraying in my face...it was so good!
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Registered: 06-21-2004
Mon, 07-19-2004 - 11:52pm
Sex in the shower can be great. My husband and I do it all the time. One way we do it, which is the easiest, is I stand up one the sides of the bath tub. One leg on one side, the other leg on the other side. He stands in the tub normal, but penetrates me from behind. He holds my waist so I don't fall and I keep my balance by placing my hands against the wall. Lube in the shower does work. There are lubes you can buy that is especially for water, but ky works just fine. Depending on your height difference you can keep in leg in the tub and one up one the side instead. This might be good for the first time and then you can try both legs standing up on the sides. It is really fun and I wish you luck. Don't forget that you should always try something first before you decide if you don't like it.

Bridgette
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Registered: 07-20-2004
Mon, 07-26-2004 - 5:35pm
I love having sex in the shower! It all depends on your preferences. The lubricant won't wash off as long as you're turned on by what he's doing to you. I prefer having sex in warm water running down my back and he's behind me. I think the best position (and safest) in the shower is doggystyle.