Everyone wants everything their way, but when it comes to relationships, it certainly doesn't work out if both people aren't happy. Not all men "want it their way" -- most want the woman to be happy also. It really works to their benefit as well, since a woman who enjoys sex is much more likely to be creative and want to have more sex.
A very important thing someone told me once: "You teach people how to treat you."
He can't have it his way unless you're willing to let him. In that case, you're teaching him that it's okay to be selfish and not take your wants/needs into consideration. Tell him what you want/need, outside of the bedroom setting, and give him a chance to respond. You may not get it all your way either, but in a healthy relationship, the partners at least try to compromise.
Hmmmm, You're not a total alpha female, but you certainly know how to - and like to - get your way. You're forceful without being intimidating. You're confident without being vain. A perfect mix.
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For the same reason that most girls want to do it their way!
Welcome to the board, sexii2008.
Everyone wants everything their way, but when it comes to relationships, it certainly doesn't work out if both people aren't happy. Not all men "want it their way" -- most want the woman to be happy also. It really works to their benefit as well, since a woman who enjoys sex is much more likely to be creative and want to have more sex.
A very important thing someone told me once: "You teach people how to treat you."
He can't have it his way unless you're willing to let him. In that case, you're teaching him that it's okay to be selfish and not take your wants/needs into consideration. Tell him what you want/need, outside of the bedroom setting, and give him a chance to respond. You may not get it all your way either, but in a healthy relationship, the partners at least try to compromise.
Good luck, and let us know how it goes.
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Not all men want it their way.
When mama is happy - everyone
RJJJ
Visit me on my boards
Let's Talk Toys
Let's Talk About Sex
~ visit my partners in the siggy exchange ~
Dealing with In-Laws ~ Renewing Your Vows
Click here to fill your Sweet Tooth!
(no calories!)
RJJJ
You Have Many Alpha Tendencies
You're not a total alpha female, but you certainly know how to - and like to - get your way.
You're forceful without being intimidating. You're confident without being vain. A perfect mix.
Visit me on my boards
Let's Talk Toys
Let's Talk About Sex
~ visit my partners in the siggy exchange ~
Dealing with In-Laws ~ Renewing Your Vows
Click here to fill your Sweet Tooth!
(no calories!)
Hmmmm, You're not a total alpha female, but you certainly know how to - and like to - get your way.
You're forceful without being intimidating. You're confident without being vain. A perfect mix.
That sounds like
RJJJ
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