Sex Talk

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Registered: 08-22-2007
Sex Talk
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Wed, 08-22-2007 - 5:51pm

So my new boyfriend wants me to "talk" to him in bed. I have NO IDEA what to say.

Suggestions Please!!!

iVillage Member
Registered: 02-17-2007
In reply to: kit077
Wed, 08-22-2007 - 8:51pm
Just talk about what the two of you are doing together. Like, "You look/feel/smell so sexy when you touch/rub/pinch me ____." My dirty talk typically consists of the two of us asking each other what feels good, if the other person likes what the other is doing and saying how much we enjoy watching our bodies together. You don't have to say things like, "Give it to me, etc. etc." Just do what feels more natural and if you want to progress into the "dirtier" talking, it will not feel so weird. You'll be fine, don't worry!

 

iVillage Member
Registered: 12-12-2006
In reply to: kit077
Thu, 08-23-2007 - 12:39am

I agree with Suki. You're experiencing pleasure and feelings, and you should tell him how you feel....."oh, that feels good"......."I love when you do that"! "Please don't stop"......."you make me feel so good"......

No guy wants his partner to just LIE there silently.....he want's some reaction to what he's doing and how it feels.

iVillage Member
Registered: 03-31-2007
In reply to: kit077
Thu, 08-23-2007 - 7:41am

Welcome to the board kit077.

Like the others have mentioned, start by talking to him about what he's doing and how it feels. Do you have thoughts when you are together? Things like "oh, that feels good" or "oh yeah, right there"? Just speaking your mind might be all the prompting you need to say the sort of things he wants to hear. I know often I will just say "oh babe" and that seems like enough dirty talk at the right time, lol.

Saying hot things is really sexy, but if he's like most guys, he wants to "hear" that you're enjoying yourself.



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