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| Wed, 06-22-2005 - 8:02pm |
I need help in this area! I want to be more verbal sexually - more explicit - but I have such a hard time. Things just sound stupid in my head so I won't say them out loud. Another problem I have is that some words don't flow over my lips well!! (must be my 16+ years of catholic education!!) How can I get more comfortable talking "dirty" during sex without shocking myself and what do I say!?!?!

Say what you're feeling even if it's in a whisper to start with till you get comfortable doing it.
Try practice.
Try making up some sentences that you think would be good to say but leave the nouns out.
For example; "I want your _______ in my _______"
or
"You make me feel so _______" or
"I love it when I feel your _______ against my skin."
Now make a list of all the words that you can think of that would fit into that sentence.
Slowly read those words aloud to yourself.
Now read the sentence with those words in it.
Read it out aloud to yourself using different combinations of the words.
Read it out aloud to yourself again, this time, with some feeling. :-)
Now add some intensifiers and adjectives to the list: Words like "big", and "hot" and "wet" and "tight".
Fill the gaps in:
"I want your ______ _____ in my ______ ______!"
or
"I love it when I feel your _______ ________ against my ________ ________".
Do this a couple of times a day. Make up as many sentences as you can. Eventually you'll find that you can say them without getting a mental block or shocking yourself.