Sex talk

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Registered: 08-29-2003
Sex talk
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Thu, 07-29-2004 - 2:31pm
Why is it that while engaging in sexual activities that males tend to always ask the female who's pu__y is this. When my SO asks the question during sex I answer and it doesn't bother me but it seems to have been a trend with a couple of other guys that I have been involved with on that level. What doesn't it do for them? Is it a turn on? Another question mainly for the guys do you enjoy when a women takes over during sex and let you relax and recieve pleasure.
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Registered: 04-13-2004
In reply to: tishalohman
Thu, 07-29-2004 - 2:40pm
I think it's just a fun thing to do. A little play~talk! I personally love play~talk!
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Registered: 04-26-2004
In reply to: tishalohman
Thu, 07-29-2004 - 2:47pm
I've never had a guy ask me what you said. That would just throw me off, I think. I like dirty talk...to a point. My guy tends to ask me, during intercourse, if I've "come" yet or "are you close". THAT'S more annoying and distracting. I think saying how it feels or how YOU fell is good, but I hate the questions!
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Registered: 08-29-2003
In reply to: tishalohman
Thu, 07-29-2004 - 2:56pm
see I'm on the same page as you. If I'm enjoying myself I don't mind the little comments but sometimes the questions do become distracting. One thing I did to really throw my SO off was when he asked me if I was coming I told him you should be able to tell by now when I'm coming.
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Registered: 04-13-2004
In reply to: tishalohman
Thu, 07-29-2004 - 3:06pm
Oh gosh, I would never say something like that to my hubby. I think they do KNOW when we're close at least. I just think a lot of men like to hear "something" from their SO during the act. For us, it's a regular part of our lives, but even with boyfriends prior to my marriage, they liked to hear their questions answered and more. To me, the guy needs to have something about his voice to make it enticing. I think it's their tone and the way they handle themselves and you in bed that when added to the talk makes it extra fun.
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Registered: 11-15-2003
In reply to: tishalohman
Thu, 07-29-2004 - 3:07pm
Hi Tish,

Not all men use those terms... I don't. And yes...I love when she takes over once in awhile (or as often as she likes).

Peace.

Scott.

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Registered: 01-03-2004
In reply to: tishalohman
Thu, 07-29-2004 - 3:48pm
Personally if he doesn't know who it belongs to then you shouldn't be having sex. I have never asked that of any of my gf's, now I do like a little dirty talk, a little narrative, a little tellling me what you like.

And yes it is nice to have a partner become the aggressor sometimes.

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Registered: 04-13-2004
In reply to: tishalohman
Thu, 07-29-2004 - 4:19pm
cute!
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Registered: 04-23-2004
In reply to: tishalohman
Thu, 07-29-2004 - 4:38pm
Nope, never had that question asked of me.

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Registered: 03-26-2003
In reply to: tishalohman
Thu, 07-29-2004 - 4:52pm
Hmmm. Well, that's one I've never been asked in my life! And my DH has never asked me that in 28 years. I guess if a guy has some caveman, macho fantasies to fulfill, he might get off on that question. But if it doesn't bother you, then it's no big deal.

I would have to answer "mine" though since he's only "borrowing" it for a few minutes! LOL!

And I can safely answer the 2nd question for my DH. YES! He loves being overwhelmed and TAKEN.