Sex too long?
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| Tue, 10-24-2006 - 11:45pm |
Ladies: Is there such a thing as sex that is too long? Lets assume it is good, heck great even, you are enjoying yourself, are you ever simply "done"?
I by no means intend to boast (as I imagine some might) but I can have sex for hours on end, and maintain the pace throughout (I am an endurance athlete). Problem is I have heard the optimal time for sex is like 20-40minutes. When she masturbates she orgasms somewhere in that period.
Last week we had sex for almost four hours strait, I couldnt come, and she was sore, I was exhausted and pretty much gave up. I was really sore to the touch for two days >.<
so last night I tried my best to get off as soon as possible and it still took a tad over two hours.
She says she likes it, on one hand she is the most sex crazy girl I have ever met, more happy to do anything she can to get herself or me off whenever. On the otherhand she is my girlfriend and I have that feeling she would tell me anything to make me happy.
So really a no BS answer how long is best for you? Put yourself in her shoes, does this sound excessive or fantastic.
Lord knows I aim to please, but as a guy the concept of multiple orgasms is sort of lost on me.
Thanks in advance, Kilo

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I think you need to have a very serious talk with her, and tell her that YOU are having a problem. Hopefully she's not so insecure (or uneducated about sex) that she's going to take it personally. I guess there are a lot of women who do take things like that personally, just as there are men who take it personally if a woman doesn't have an orgasm. Either way, it's NO ONE'S fault, and it's a problem that should be dealt with.
As for multiple orgasms, it's way different for women than it is for men. I'm multiorgasmic, and I've never counted, but I can have MANY orgasms during one session, but I'm sure long before 4 hours, I would be calling it quits. Some women are lucky to have one orgasm, and some don't have them at all. We're all different.
You should probably see a doctor, preferably an urologist, and get yourself checked out.
Until you do that, just tell her that you'll go as long as you can to please her, but within an hour or so, you'll just have to stop. And, if it's possible, you can finish yourself, and if she cares about you, she can finish you orally. If you can't finish at all, then for SURE you should see the doctor & find out what's going on.
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