Sex Toys

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Registered: 04-18-2003
Sex Toys
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Tue, 11-28-2006 - 9:11pm

I am 23 years old, single and no current sexual partners. I've been curious about sex toys and would really like to try some out. I am thinking of getting a dildo and an anal plug and maybe a vibrator or anal beads. I don't know exactly what to buy, how or where to buy these items: I think it would be horribly embarassing to walk into a sex store. I thought about buying online, but again, I don't know which sites are good/reputable. Another problem is that all my credit card and bank accounts are viewable by my mom who works in the bank where I have all my accounts.

Any help on what to buy, where and how? Thanks!

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Registered: 10-18-2001
In reply to: rose122282
Tue, 11-28-2006 - 10:24pm

I suppose that there is no reason why you can't open one account with another bank. I would already be transferring my accounts if I was 23yo and knew that my Mother was looking at my accounts. As an adult I would resent that lack of privacy.

But anyway, as to the sex toys. Adam and Eve have been good. Good Vibrations (dub-dub-dub dot goodvibes dot com) is good. All send them in plain courier parcels - it may as well be office supplies, books or DVD's for all anyone would guess looking at the outside of the package.

As for what to get? You really are spoilt for choice. The Rabbit style vibes are always popular. The Rabbit Habit cordless is pretty much a sure-fire orgasm machine! If any toy is going to do it for you, then it's probably that type. Not very versatile though.

Other than that a plain vibe about 7" long in your choice of hard plastic or jelly material or whatever you choose would be a good place to start. Even these vibes start with the basics and the sky is the limit in materials and colours and functions and shapes...

Maybe even the "Laya" is one to look at? A small vibe for external stimulation it is about the size and shape of an small avocado. It's pretty cool too.

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Registered: 03-11-2005
In reply to: rose122282
Wed, 11-29-2006 - 4:35am
We have a nice collection of toys that we enjoy. Here is how we use them. During intercourse we love the Trojan Vibrating Ring that fits on the penis and vibrates stimulating the clitoris during intercourse. My wife says there is nothing like a real dick that vibrates. She cums and cums. We also use our Penthouse Vibrating Golden Egg during intercourse. She will place it so that it contacts her clitoris and my penis at the same time. Sometimes she inserts it in her vagina and we have intercourse with it vibrating inside. Really wild. We also use our Pocket Rocket during intercourse to vibrate both my penis and her clitoris. We have several vibrating dildos(2 jelly dildos and one black rubber dildo) that my wife uses to masturbate with. I love to watch them go in and out of her vagina. We have a rabbit type vibrator(Purple Titan) that my wife uses to masturbate. I love to watch her cum while using it. We have several anal toys(Spectragels Vibrating anal tool, Anal E-Z Bend, Anal T and Anal Beads) that she uses to massage my prostate while she gives me a blowjob. Really intensifies my orgasms. We also watch porno DVD'S(group sex, orgies, DP and cum shots) during sex. Toys are hot!!!
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Registered: 04-23-2004
In reply to: rose122282
Wed, 11-29-2006 - 8:03am

If your mom can see your bank accounts, why not change banks?


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Registered: 12-05-2006
In reply to: rose122282
Tue, 12-05-2006 - 3:46am

This may be a little odd...

But, have you tried Ebay? I believe if you go through Paypal, the item does not come up on the account, only the ammount and where it was spent. Your mother won't be able to tell what it was, only that you've spent money on it, and you could probably get it cheap there.

I for one haven't searched Ebay, I stick with sites like Http://www.edenfantasys.com/ and http://www.extremerestraints.com/ but I've never had to hide anything from anyone. So give it a try. See what you can come up with. After all, They say Ebay has EVERYTHING, no? ;D

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Registered: 04-21-2008
In reply to: rose122282
Fri, 06-03-2011 - 2:27pm

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