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| Tue, 12-13-2005 - 1:35am |
Hey all,
Since you were all so helpful last time-and since I first logged on here I've been spending a surprising amount of time reading others posts-I figured you would have more helpful suggestions.
I want a vibrator. I want it for my own personal use, and to spice up the bedroom. However, my bf feels very threatened by this. He feels that if I get one, then I won't want him anymore-cause I won't "need" him. How can I relax him, and let him know that this will not take away from our time, nor my "need" of him?

You don't NEED him now, you WANT him. We can please ourselves without a partner. Remind him of that.
Ask him if HIS masturbation keeps him from wanting sex with you. Might help him to understand a little better. You just can't compare an inanimate (or even animate) object to a warm responsive human being!