Sex toys for guys?

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Registered: 05-16-2004
Sex toys for guys?
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Sun, 01-15-2006 - 6:19am
It seems like there are tons of sex toys for women from artificial guy equipment to remote control eggs. It doesn't seem like there is anywhere close to the variety for men. Do you think toys for women are more acceptable are what? Would you have a problem with your guy using an artifical V?
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Registered: 07-22-2004
Sun, 01-15-2006 - 9:40am

Hey txguy!

Artificial remote control eggs??? Whew!, I've got a LOT of reading to do, LOL!

Anyway, this has actually been a question asked numerous times on a sex board here on the net as well. I've lost count of the number of ladies mentioning that they simply needed the help more, and that was it, lol.

When I did read those replies back then, I always got confused when comparing them to the replies on board though. This board, for example, put more emphasis on the clitoral area as the part needing the most attention, yet the ladies on the other board emphasized attention more internally.

So we should appreciate what we can learn from one board, but to certainly keep our learning options open anyway...thats what we've learned.

Anyhow, YES, there was a couple that had a problem with the using a toy, but the problem was that he used that sooo often, while making excuses to not be with 'her' due to tiredness and what not, that he actually tried "hiding" his usage from her to avoid hurting her feelings. She really made it sound as if he enjoyed "it" more than "her" herself.

So, at least we know that it can and does happen, even if on rare occasion.

 

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Registered: 04-10-2005
Mon, 01-23-2006 - 11:19pm

I wouldn't have a problem with my husband using an artificial vagina. Could be a fun way to fantasize about a threesome without the risk of the other woman ;) You are right about the lack of variety in toys for men but really many of the toys for women do the same thing as one another. Some of the toys for women are just as much fun for men. Pocket rockets and anal beads are fun for both for example.

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Registered: 03-26-2003
Tue, 01-24-2006 - 12:46am

IF I used a dildo, then how could I object to my Dh using an artificial vagina? But, since I don't, then I see no reason why he would want to.

There are all kinds of toys out there meant to be used by both sexes and that's what we tend to be interested in....things to enhance our time together.

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Registered: 12-24-2005
Tue, 01-24-2006 - 1:59am

I just hope the artificial vaginas have gotten better over the years. When my best friend & I were 15, we got a subscription to Penthouse Magazine, and I remember we ordered an artificial vagina from an ad in the back.

What arrived was basically a soft-plastic (almost rubberlike) bright orange thing that we didn't know what the hell it was!

And of course we had no idea what to possibly do with it and I bet it's still sitting somewhere in his parents house hidden away in one of his drawers in his old bedroom!

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Registered: 04-23-2004
Tue, 01-24-2006 - 11:31am

I wouldn't have a problem if


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