sex vs head

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Registered: 07-11-2005
sex vs head
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Sun, 07-31-2005 - 9:47am
ok well as you know if you've read my other discussions. i love giving head which my man loves lol.. but i'm not really great at riding him. which is kinda fusterating to me because durring sex he is always doing the work. does anyone have any suggestions for the whole not being great at riding him. or your should i just stick to giving him great head :)
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Registered: 07-26-2005
In reply to: lostnhislove
Sun, 07-31-2005 - 9:59am

Why can't you do it all? I'm sure he's not too "worried" about doing all the "work", but woman on top is easy, if you practice. Why can't you do it? How often have you tried? Besides, WOT is more for the woman's pleasure than the man's......most men don't "finish" that way.....it's just one of the things that you can do for a change. Anything that you do over and over will get boring.....including "great" fellatio.

If you keep practicing......you'll figure out how to do it. Don't squat on your heels...kneel. Squatting is hard on the legs. Don't try to bounce up and down like a jack rabbit, leave that for him! Just get comfortable, then slowly and sensuously rotate your hips.....grind into him. Again, this position is for YOU.....if you get it right, you'll never want to give it up.

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Registered: 04-23-2004
In reply to: lostnhislove
Sun, 07-31-2005 - 10:09am

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Registered: 07-11-2005
In reply to: lostnhislove
Sun, 07-31-2005 - 10:20am
okay well its kinda hurts when i'm on top of him.
and he is wonderful at giving me oral.
the thing is he is like the 8th person ive slept with and he is older than me he is 24 im 18 and he is obviously more experinced jsut because the sex is SO MUCH better then with anyone else before.
so i got kinda self concious...
well like when he is thrusting i will mov with him or whatever but its kinda like i freeze up lol..
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Registered: 04-23-2004
In reply to: lostnhislove
Sun, 07-31-2005 - 10:47am

You have nothing to be self-conscious about.


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Registered: 07-11-2005
In reply to: lostnhislove
Sun, 07-31-2005 - 10:58am

ok so when i'm on top dont go up and down; grind, (side to side back and forth..)

that may have been the problem...

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Registered: 04-23-2004
In reply to: lostnhislove
Sun, 07-31-2005 - 12:24pm

Grind, circulate your hips in a sensual way, move around


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Registered: 07-27-2005
In reply to: lostnhislove
Sun, 07-31-2005 - 12:29pm

Those are good suggestions to improve your riding him. But don't forget there must be something in this for you besides him. It is not all about pleasing him. Please yourself. So the idea to keep giving him head, can't be taking into consideration your pleasure. And if that is because you feeling he has the experience and you do not, as you said, don't let that inhibit you. If anything, if he cares about you, he should be interested in pleasing you. Not taking advantage of you with your idea that it is all about you pleasing him.

Jen