Sex vs. Stamina... define better please!

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Registered: 06-20-2004
Sex vs. Stamina... define better please!
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Sun, 06-20-2004 - 10:27am
C'mon Ladies! I have searched the web over and not found the answer to the question... "what is the average duration of a man?" OK... so "average" is up for further definition and so is "duration"... but I think you get the idea that we are NOT counting foreplay and are sticking strickly to penetration and the "motion of the ocean" as it were.

I have seen figures on a poll recently asking for size or stamina, and the stamina figure that I have seen is 20-30 mins...... is THAT all???? Now I am confused.

Is this saying that the 20-30 minute figure is a performance of GOOD stamina? I can understand the concept of the 5 minute cheated feeling, but I never realized in my own experience that "minute man" was a literal naming of the situation.

I guess the bottom line question is where do the guys who can last more than 30 minutes at a time and come 5-6 times in the course of several hours fit into the "stamina" picture? What is too much, what is not enough and what is just right for you individually? And good Lord.... PLEASE tell me what is "average" for the men you have been with. Maybe I need to re-examine my own performance to that of "average".

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Registered: 04-23-2004
Sun, 06-20-2004 - 11:57am

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Registered: 04-19-2003
Wed, 06-23-2004 - 3:26am

I have read stats - the average man takes about 5 minutes of intercourse to orgasm.

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Registered: 12-29-2003
Wed, 06-23-2004 - 6:36am
"I guess the bottom line question is where do the guys who can last more than 30 minutes at a time and come 5-6 times in the course of several hours fit into the "stamina" picture?"

Honestly, I think they fit in the fiction category.

taoist

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Registered: 06-20-2004
Wed, 06-23-2004 - 8:01pm
My boyfriend and I can go (intercourse alone) for about 45 minutes, so even though it may be rare, guys can last that long!

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Registered: 07-19-2003
Thu, 06-24-2004 - 10:48am
Not fiction, Were out there
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Registered: 12-29-2003
Thu, 06-24-2004 - 12:16pm
I've heard of 2 or 3 in several hours, but honestly, 5 or 6? Maybe over a 24 hour period.

taoist.
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Registered: 05-19-2004
Thu, 06-24-2004 - 12:35pm
Not including foreplay, etc...just strictly penetration, I'd have to say about 15 minutes. It takes me a while to get off, and it usually isn't long enough..I have to finish on my own after he's done.

Cathi

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Registered: 11-12-2003
Thu, 06-24-2004 - 1:07pm
well its true tao...i had a 44 y/o lover who would often cum 4 or 5 times in a few hours.

honey

    

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Registered: 12-29-2003
Thu, 06-24-2004 - 4:16pm
Did he actually ejaculate each time or did he orgasm without ejaculation? One guy that I talked with on another board said he could come 3-4 times in a few hours, but this ability declined after he turned 35.

taoist
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Registered: 06-20-2004
Thu, 06-24-2004 - 5:31pm
I'm certain that men, just as women, come in all sorts of abilities, needs and desires. I just wanted to make sure that there have to be men out there like me, and I know of at least one woman (the GF, of course) who can keep up with me and wear ME out. 15 mins ain't gonna cut it for her, and as we both agree, if each of us concentrates on giving total pleasure to the other, we don't need to worry about ourselves as we definitely feel that we BOTH recieve more than we give.

I started this discussion because I have only had 4 partners and I am the first male partner for my GF. Although relative novices, I think we have decided that the velocity and volume that we create in bed is just right for us...... now as for others?.... I just don't know yet.

Always looking for answers...... ;)

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