Sex w/a third party nearby

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Registered: 01-30-2004
Sex w/a third party nearby
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Sat, 07-17-2004 - 3:26pm
Have you ever had sex in front of or near someone else? I'm not talking about a threesome. Curious. Never done it and I have this wierd urge to.

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Registered: 04-04-2003
Sat, 07-17-2004 - 3:39pm
When I was much younger, my b/f at the time (who went on to become the father of my 2 kids) had a housekeeper/cook who was a dead ringer for Mrs. Doubtfire. We'd often have sex in plain view of her. It wasn't to titillate her or anything, it was just totally normal. One time when we'd first met we were having sex out by the pool and she came out afterwards and served us lunch. It was pretty obvious she'd seen us and she was totally normal and friendly and humorous about it. After that we did dropped our guard and several times; not right in front of her but certainly not trying to hide it either. We were both very slender and tall and she was as big as both of us together! Heck of a nice lady. That's my only experience with anything like this.
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Registered: 04-23-2004
Sat, 07-17-2004 - 5:28pm
Nope, never done it.

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Registered: 07-05-2004
Sat, 07-17-2004 - 10:40pm
the first time my BF and i had sex was on a bunk bed and a friend was ours was sleeping on the top bunk, and i thought he was passed out b/c we all had been drinking after a long day at the beach. one thing lead to another we we started having sex. i feel bad but its kinda funny b/c the friend i thought was asleep was DEFINETLY awake the WHOLE time. we werent all that loud but werent very quiet either. he didnt say anything till the next day when he told my BF that he heard EVERYTHING! he didnt see anything but it was just that he had heard everything...i was so embarassed to talk to him let alone look at him. now we all can laugh about it. but that is the closeset we've had to having someone watch us.

Crystal

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Registered: 03-26-2003
Sun, 07-18-2004 - 12:42pm
Same here. Sex is a personal and private thing for us, too. We have no desire to share our intimate moments with anyone else and never have. The THOUGHT can be exciting but we don't feel the need to make it a reality.
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Registered: 07-11-2004
Sun, 07-18-2004 - 5:17pm
Never done it. But I sometimes fantasize about it. I also fantasize about watching 2 people get it on and pleasuring myself while I watch.
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Registered: 03-26-2003
Sun, 07-18-2004 - 5:24pm
I agree that it does make a great fantasy. My wife and I would not do it in real life, though.
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Registered: 04-04-2003
Sun, 07-18-2004 - 9:56pm
Yeah, I can't believe I did that. Never even come close since (we're talking early '80s). We would be screwing on the sofa in his living room in plain view of the housekeeper, cooking dinner in the kitchen maybe 20 feet away. I'm sure we even talked with her a bit "during." It was a wierd dynamic -- we were kind of like her kids. And we were pretty hot! ;-) (Not that you have sex in front of your parents, but you get what I'm saying.) He was a great guy and she'd been his housekeeper before I got there. I don't know if this was a regular occurrence!?!; kinda doubt it. But we were both very comfortable naked or very scantily clothed around her. Hopefully it didn't traumatize her, but I don't think it did, or that she was aroused or bothered by it in the least.
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Registered: 07-15-2004
Sun, 07-18-2004 - 10:31pm
I'VE HAD ORAL SEX IN FRONT OF MY COUSIN. IT WAS GREAT THE FACT THAT SHE WAS IN THE SAME ROOM WHILE HE WENT DOWN ON ME SENT MY BODY INTO OVER DRIVE. EVEN IF SHE WASN'T LOOKING IT STILL WAS GREAT HAVING MY MAN SHOW OFF HIS SKILLS.I REALLY DIDN'T CARE BECAUSE SHE IS GAY.BUT I WOULD LOVE TO DO IT AGAIN IN FRONT OF STRANGERS. WAHT DO YOU THINK
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Registered: 03-26-2003
Sun, 07-18-2004 - 11:10pm
I think you are a very "naughty" girl!! LOL
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Registered: 07-15-2004
Mon, 07-19-2004 - 12:56am
me and my honey are very naughty. we want to try other naughty things with people any ideas.

bella

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