Sex w/a third party nearby

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Sex w/a third party nearby
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Sat, 07-17-2004 - 3:26pm
Have you ever had sex in front of or near someone else? I'm not talking about a threesome. Curious. Never done it and I have this wierd urge to.

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Registered: 05-21-2004
Mon, 07-19-2004 - 11:11am
I've been somewhat obsessed with the idea of doing it on my bf's back patio...and since we're in NYC- you can BET one of the many windows nearby will have someone watching!!

we're waiting til the guy in his building is NOT around, because while the idea of strangers perhaps catching a glimpse of what we've already decided will be a quickie!- we'd REALLY hate for his neighbor to see!!

something tells me it will be a late night thing!!

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Mon, 07-19-2004 - 11:46am
>>you can BET one of the many windows nearby will have someone watching!!<<

Including children. Besides, other people may not want it forced on them to view you having sex. If you ever choose to be viewed, try a sex club or somewhere where the people want to watch you and you don't run the risk of a child seeing you.

Leticia

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Registered: 04-13-2004
Mon, 07-19-2004 - 12:50pm
Yes we have and in the beginning, it was very awkward and weird for me. But I slowly relaxed and got lost in the sex with my hubby. To me, also, it depends WHO is watching. Some guys are such perves. My hubby likes it when the other person is not expecting it to happen and I suppose that is better for me too - rather than having a pervert panting across the room or wherever we are with his penis in his hand. That, to me, is gross and the guy might as well be at a strip joint in the back room as far as I'm concerned.
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Registered: 04-13-2004
Mon, 07-19-2004 - 12:52pm
I hear you. My hubby has made love to me out on our deck and I know, even if it's dark, people (if they're out on their own deck or just gazing out the window) can see us. It is SO nice making love outside though - especially these summer nights!
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Mon, 07-19-2004 - 2:47pm
Yeah T- i AM looking forward to that hot summer night action...

and leticia, you make a good point, i'd be UPSET if my neice caught a glimpse of someone gettin in on!

but we've chosen a more hidden spot (blocked partly by a shed and a big tree) and like i said it WILL be late at night! hopefully all the neighborhood kiddies will be sleeping!

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Mon, 07-19-2004 - 2:53pm
>>but we've chosen a more hidden spot (blocked partly by a shed and a big tree) and like i said it WILL be late at night! hopefully all the neighborhood kiddies will be sleeping!<<

Sounds wise. DH have had sex outside many times, it is a thrill to possibly be caught but we have never been anywhere that kids may come by or at a time they should be out. Have fun!

Leticia

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Registered: 04-13-2004
Mon, 07-19-2004 - 3:03pm
Yeah - we go later, plus our neighbors don't have kiddies around anyway. We go out on our top deck which extends out off of our master bedroom - so we're pretty high up.
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Mon, 07-19-2004 - 8:03pm
just curious if it would matter to you knowing that you turned her on when you would do it around her? seems that you are emphasizing that you and your mate were hot and she was not. why would that matter?

most of us are sexual creatures, including the overweight and older ones, not only the tall slender ones

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Registered: 04-04-2003
Mon, 07-19-2004 - 9:22pm
Maybe you're right. I really have no idea. I -hope- we didn't traumatize her. We did this often enough that it seems to me she would have spoken up. I mean I would even straddle him once in a while right there at the kitchen table while she was cooking dinner -- I don't think we had sex, but I'm sure I was openly grabbing his penis etc. She would make only the most pleasant, light jokes about it. It seems really wierd to recall. Maybe she went to her room and got out the vibe, I really don't know!

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