sex w/o a boyfriend

iVillage Member
Registered: 06-22-2007
sex w/o a boyfriend
12
Mon, 10-15-2007 - 9:38pm
My 'Ex'- boyfriend and I broke up about a month ago, however, we just started getting together about two weeks ago, and somehow, every time we're together, we end up having sex. The first time we did it while not dating, I felt very stupid, for just giving in like that, but it happened again, and I'm realizing that I don't mind it at all because I like being close to him, and I know we probably won't get back together or anything, but is it a bad idea for he and I to be doing this without dating, even though neither of us are seeing anyone else??????

Pages

iVillage Member
Registered: 07-15-2007
Tue, 10-23-2007 - 6:15pm

westridge nailed it.


if you want to mess around, make sure you're not going to get crushed when he finds someone else he wants to mess around with.


excellent line of thought there.


-lg

iVillage Member
Registered: 06-22-2007
Wed, 10-24-2007 - 10:49pm
yeah, I'm PRETTY sure I would be able to handle it if he decided to move on, same as he would probably be able to handle if I moved on. We have talked about this alot, and for some reason I am starting to feel like he's reconsidering his choice to break up with me, however, I'm not sure if now is a good time for us to get back together. . .either way, I'm not waiting my whole life for him to take me back, if I find a new guy that I like , thats who I'll be spending my time with, not the X.

Pages