Sexcess

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Registered: 09-12-2007
Sexcess
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Mon, 03-10-2008 - 12:36am

What's a surefire way to get your spouse interested in getting intertwined asap?


Is it having the toys laid out on the bed?


Maybe it starts in the morning before work - just the interaction between the two of you?


Is it dirty talk that you know will rile


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Registered: 03-03-2008
In reply to: an_inquiring_mind
Fri, 04-04-2008 - 3:35am

LMAO...breathing.


Seriously my DH wants to cuddle and touch 24/7.

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Registered: 09-08-2007
In reply to: an_inquiring_mind
Fri, 04-04-2008 - 2:11pm

Hey, thanks for the idea for wedding vows. I've managed to forget to mention that I want to write ours ourselves, to him too,lol. We still have a few months though. I need to get back into poem writing mode sometime soon. Hope you don't mind my stealing your idea.

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Registered: 03-03-2008
In reply to: an_inquiring_mind
Fri, 04-04-2008 - 4:26pm
Oh PLEASE.

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Registered: 09-08-2007
In reply to: an_inquiring_mind
Fri, 04-04-2008 - 4:55pm
Now to convince him to write his own vow. He tends to express his feelings in a, hmmmmm,
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Registered: 03-03-2008
In reply to: an_inquiring_mind
Fri, 04-04-2008 - 5:07pm
you could collaborate and each come up with ideas of what to include in the vows...and then compile it into something you both say.

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Registered: 09-08-2007
In reply to: an_inquiring_mind
Fri, 04-04-2008 - 5:14pm
Thats just his problem, verbalizing or writing his thoughts, same kind of thing for his brain. Anything more than "I love you" is very difficult for him to get out. We'll see what he says when I ask him about it.
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Registered: 09-12-2007
In reply to: an_inquiring_mind
Fri, 04-04-2008 - 9:55pm

Hi, Diana.


Love your "service" statement - that's great!


I've shared


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Registered: 09-12-2007
In reply to: an_inquiring_mind
Fri, 04-04-2008 - 10:03pm

"If he says, "ewwwwww", then I know not to bring it up as something I want to try, LOL."


Laughing, Misty...


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Registered: 09-12-2007
In reply to: an_inquiring_mind
Fri, 04-04-2008 - 10:27pm

Awesome, Laura.


I think it's great that you and your husband have


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Registered: 01-06-2007
In reply to: an_inquiring_mind
Fri, 04-04-2008 - 10:51pm

Hey, I LOVE your sig pic!

With DH, it can be any number of things. The right look will get him going. ANY mention or hint that some fun might be coming later in the day will keep his mind on it all day. He loves it when I take the initiative to tell him what I want that night!

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