Sex...the longest for you?

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Registered: 05-05-2008
Sex...the longest for you?
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Tue, 12-16-2008 - 11:58am

I am in need of either sex or some type of male loving...(LOL). Its been two months since I have had sex. I had a sex buddy, but I gave him up, wasn't doing it for me anymore.

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Registered: 12-12-2008
Tue, 12-16-2008 - 1:33pm

Hey Gal,


I went for nearly 4 years one time--sort of a long story, but I had a bad relationship that started when I was in high school until I was nearly 45.

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Registered: 12-12-2006
Tue, 12-16-2008 - 1:56pm

Twelve years!

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Registered: 08-01-2006
Tue, 12-16-2008 - 2:00pm
I have gone for a long time without sex. You just go about living your life and doing day to day things.






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Registered: 02-28-2006
Tue, 12-16-2008 - 2:18pm
Almost 2 years, in between breaking up with the GF from hell, and meeting the woman who's now my DW.


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Registered: 03-31-2007
Tue, 12-16-2008 - 3:57pm

Welcome to the board, Risktaker.

I honestly never kept track, but I'm sure I went without for a year or more when I was between relationship and no longer doing the FWB thing.

I miss sex more when it should be available and things are working out more than I ever missed sex between relationships. If was frustrated, I could always take care of myself in either event, but it's more frustrating to be in a sexless relationship than it is to be living life as a single person without a sexual partner.















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Registered: 03-31-2007
Tue, 12-16-2008 - 4:00pm

Welcome to the board, Wornsilver.

It's great you found your perfect mate! Feel free to poke around the board, or start a thread of your own. There are a lot of great suggestions here ... and a lot of great members willing to offer advice.

Spicing it up is a lot of fun! Do the two of you use toys together? Are you playful in the car or public places? Do you spend time throughout the day making her feel special and wanted?















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Registered: 12-21-2006
Tue, 12-16-2008 - 4:18pm
It will soon be two months for me. I guess it may not count since I'm a guy and should be able to get something going.
My last attempt didn't pan out and I more or less decided to give up.
I do know one thing. Any guy who takes the time to go to a strip club had best be careful in inviting any of the performers to dinner. I had a female cop try to entrap me and just did manage to get out of it by not incriminating myself.
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Registered: 03-31-2007
Tue, 12-16-2008 - 4:27pm

Yikes on the set up! Makes you wonder why the cops don't realize there are more important issues in the world.

I don't know why you think it's easier for guys to get something going. I think men and women face different challenges in this area, but both face challenges just the same.















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Registered: 06-04-2004
Tue, 12-16-2008 - 5:16pm
The LONGEST without sex officially is 17 years. That is counting from when I was of legal age. If I count from puberty it was 23 years. I can say there was a LOT of masturbating over those years to maintain my sanity. I got through by fantasizing and manual manipulation. There were a couple of relationships that it got close but it did not "feel" right so I continued to be a virgin. Then I met my DW That was it, it felt right! Now its been over 10 years of hot sex with only a few pauses for health reasons.



-Gerry-








-Gerry-






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Registered: 02-02-2004
Tue, 12-16-2008 - 9:26pm

I was hoping you would have some sexy stories...lose power, no lights...under the covers...etc.

By the way, do you have power?

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