Sexual attraction?

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Registered: 09-16-2004
Sexual attraction?
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Wed, 11-03-2004 - 7:33pm
What exactly about your partner turns you on? In any typical situation, what is the lowest common denominator in your partner's ability to arouse you?
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Registered: 10-18-2001
Wed, 11-03-2004 - 11:33pm
What? The lowest common denominator in my partner's ability to arouse me? Could you explain that a bit more and maybe give us a little background about what you are thinking? I'm not sure I really understand the question.
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Registered: 07-22-2004
Thu, 11-04-2004 - 3:15am
Forgive me, but I'm gonna have to guess that "lowest common denominator" in your question means:

"What is the very thing about your partner that turns you on as close to no matter what as possible?"

So, if I got that right, I'd have to say its not her for that matter, but its ME. LOL! Let me explain. Now matter how sexy she gets, if I'm tuckered out from work or whatever, then thats that. If I'm not in the mood, I'm not in the mood, and she's more than woman enough to understand the situation, lol. If my body is in the mood, then its in the mood, no matter how sexy she is one day to the next.

Now I will admit that the only other common denominator that does match that, is the obvious one: When we're emotionally/spiritually locked, thats it! Don't bother knocking, LOL! ;D

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Registered: 09-16-2004
Thu, 11-04-2004 - 6:12am
What traits(physical or otherwise) about your SO arouses you? Loweset-common-denominator being the simplest thing about her that arouses you.
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Thu, 11-04-2004 - 7:17am

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Registered: 10-18-2001
Thu, 11-04-2004 - 1:41pm
I'm a bit the same as the others - sometimes my partner could look and act the sexiest she ever has and I won't be aroused if I am tired and not feeling good myself.

It's difficult to seperate the smallest things out. I love her eyes, but then I've met women that have great eyes too. She's got a great neck, but other women have great necks too. The smell of Chanel Coco perfume on her is delicious. But plenty of other women wear Coco. She looks great dressed up to go out for an evening, but plenty of other women can look great when they go out for an evening. Her sense of humour works for me, but other women have a more keen sense of humour too.

It's a combination of many things. Perhaps the simplest is when I am feeling good and am in a mood for sex is simply seeing her, letting all those simple things come together, and kowing that she wants me in return. I simply can't say that there is one, and only one, thing that makes her more sexual attractive to me over other women.

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Registered: 10-26-2004
Fri, 11-05-2004 - 5:48am
His voice! Uniquely his.