Sexual compatability & choice of mate.
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Sexual compatability & choice of mate.
| Sat, 08-07-2004 - 7:45am |
How important to you was sexual compatability in your choice of a spouse? It takes more than good sex to nurture a marriage, but sex is important for most people. I've been married twice. Both women and I engaged in lovemaking before the engagement, and both were good lovers. If the sex had been consistently poor, it probably would have been a obstacle to me wanting to marry them. Both could probably have been good friends, but from a wife, I want a good sexual connection.

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You are right, there is no guarentee that things will improve, but there is no guarentee that a great sexual partner will stay that way either.
Well it sounds like your semi-girlfriend didn't take anything about your relationship seriously or cared about you at all.
So it's either someone bound by religion or someone with a sexual hang up who would wait? It seems to me, that opinions like that sound very high school. And that is not to knock you, but I remember the pressure to have sex and those comments brought it all back. I happen to think anyone who would stand p to pressure and wait for the right person has a healthy, mature attitude, not any religious or sexual hang ups. Sometimes it works out that you *don't* meet the right person until later in life, even after 20 ;-)
Leticia
Leticia
Reading this thread, I believe that there is a lot to back both sides of what different people believe.
I do believe that people can learn to please each other, however, they must be willing to learn.
Leticia
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