Sexual Habbits

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Registered: 07-11-2005
Sexual Habbits
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Mon, 07-11-2005 - 8:21pm
Ok when I first get with a guy All my sexual habits come out. All the weird stuff and exciting stuff.
But after a while its like i get shy. don't u think i would be shy at first.
Like with my ex, he tells me that i was the wildest girl he ever ducked. and lately he says that i've calmed down alot. what the hell is my problem. i met this guy at the club and all the weird and exciting stuff was there but.... i don't know and its weird becuase i enjoy giving head so i gave my EX head 24/7 and he would watch and everthing. but when i went to perform durring sex i froze up. i don't understand that either got any advise?
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Registered: 03-26-2003
Wed, 07-13-2005 - 12:24pm

Lost, if what you're doing isn't working for you, then change it.

You seem to feel pressured to impress a new guy with your sexual prowess and then feel embarrassed about your past spontaneity when things become more intimate.

Stop moving so fast the next time and allow your intimacy to build. Then, once some trust is established, you can be more open and free with him. The result? Nothing to feel embarrassed about or to regret.

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Registered: 06-15-2005
Wed, 07-13-2005 - 1:27pm
lucky man