Sexually Arousing

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Registered: 03-29-2003
Sexually Arousing
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Tue, 07-01-2008 - 1:32pm

Good Morning!


I have a question and somewhat of a concern.

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Registered: 12-12-2006
Tue, 07-01-2008 - 2:07pm

I'm sorry, but I'm not sure what you're asking.

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Registered: 03-31-2007
Tue, 07-01-2008 - 5:11pm

Welcome to the board, kaybee1181.

You didn't mention your age, or anything about birth control. Both of those can affect your hormones, which can affect your lubrication. There are a lot of lubes on the market now, many that you can pick up at your local grocer or pharmacy. Maybe try out a water-based lube and see if that helps your situation. If the two of you are using condoms, make sure that whatever type of lube you use is compatible with them.

Also, as Sakura said, foreplay helps with the arousal and lubrication, so make sure you're not skipping it.

You're also giving an indication that your level of experience and/or your past sexual relationships might be contributing to the problem. I'm not sure if either are, but the more you focus on the event at hand, the better it will be for both of you. If you're doing something to him that turns you on, go with those feelings -- don't worry about what he's thinking. The more confidence you show, the more likely it is that he's enjoying the event.



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Registered: 05-24-2008
Tue, 07-01-2008 - 6:13pm
I'm not sure what you mean about reconditioning one's self sexually.