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| Sat, 05-14-2005 - 2:52pm |
ive only had sex once and i couldnt stop shaking, i have that problem normally, i shake often, but how can i relax a bit so im shaking less?
| Sat, 05-14-2005 - 2:52pm |
Do you have a med. cond. that causes the shaking? Maybe you could give us some more info. on yourself.
Shaking "often" is something that should be diagnosed by a doctor. That could be an indicator of all kinds of illnesses and diseases.
Find out what that's all about, and don't worry about the sexual part of it.
Were you shaking because you were nervous or afraid you would do something wrong or be judged by the person you were with?
Shaking for those reasons is a common part of performance anxiety/social anxiety.
It is psychological but quite common. Try not to rush into the sex act. Just lie there or sit there and give yourself time to mentally get comfortable with the situation. After a while your body will tire itself out from shaking so much and the shakes will stop.
If you have a medical condition causing it, talk to a doctor.
We'd be able to help a little better if your description was a pinch less broad.
Did you enjoy the sex regardless the shaking? How serious is this trembling of yours, has it ever been diagnosed? Are you asking this on a sex board because it significantly during or just before and/or even after sex?
IF it happens to be nerves, especially that increase around sexual encouter, then the main thing that helped me and the Mrs. was super relaxing body massages. IN FACT, sometimes we start out very innocent and 'work our way' to the more sensual touching slowly rather than our normal pace. Worth a try, ahem, cause who wouldn't want one anyway? :)
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