shaking

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Registered: 05-14-2005
shaking
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Sat, 05-14-2005 - 2:52pm
ive only had sex once and i couldnt stop shaking, i have that problem normally, i shake often, but how can i relax a bit so im shaking less?
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Registered: 05-14-2005
In reply to: bitterstrangers
Sat, 05-14-2005 - 3:01pm
Hey stranger,
Do you have a med. cond. that causes the shaking? Maybe you could give us some more info. on yourself.
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Registered: 05-27-2004
In reply to: bitterstrangers
Sat, 05-14-2005 - 3:03pm

Shaking "often" is something that should be diagnosed by a doctor. That could be an indicator of all kinds of illnesses and diseases.

Find out what that's all about, and don't worry about the sexual part of it.

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Registered: 05-01-2003
In reply to: bitterstrangers
Sat, 05-14-2005 - 4:12pm
I think we need some clearer description of what you mean by shaking. There's a difference between getting the shakes because you haven't eaten properly, and the reactions of your body when it is aroused and not yet satisfied. Elaine
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Registered: 11-27-2003
In reply to: bitterstrangers
Sat, 05-14-2005 - 7:16pm

Were you shaking because you were nervous or afraid you would do something wrong or be judged by the person you were with?

Shaking for those reasons is a common part of performance anxiety/social anxiety.
It is psychological but quite common. Try not to rush into the sex act. Just lie there or sit there and give yourself time to mentally get comfortable with the situation. After a while your body will tire itself out from shaking so much and the shakes will stop.

If you have a medical condition causing it, talk to a doctor.

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Registered: 07-22-2004
In reply to: bitterstrangers
Sun, 05-15-2005 - 8:22am

We'd be able to help a little better if your description was a pinch less broad.

Did you enjoy the sex regardless the shaking? How serious is this trembling of yours, has it ever been diagnosed? Are you asking this on a sex board because it significantly during or just before and/or even after sex?

IF it happens to be nerves, especially that increase around sexual encouter, then the main thing that helped me and the Mrs. was super relaxing body massages. IN FACT, sometimes we start out very innocent and 'work our way' to the more sensual touching slowly rather than our normal pace. Worth a try, ahem, cause who wouldn't want one anyway? :)

 

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Registered: 05-14-2005
In reply to: bitterstrangers
Tue, 05-17-2005 - 9:22pm
i think it might have just been that it was a new experience, i am hypoglycemic which is why my doctor says i shake, but i still shake when i follow the srategies that someone who is hypoglycemic should, i do have anxiety, but i dont usualy shake more when im anxious, and considering it was the first time i had sex, i wasnt all that anxious. im not sure, thank you for all of your help.
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Registered: 07-22-2004
In reply to: bitterstrangers
Tue, 05-17-2005 - 9:37pm
Thanks for the heads up, glad to read all may be more normal than you thought after all. Thats quite the interesting condition you deal with, hopefully it won't hinder you too much.

 

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