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shaving question for the ladies
| Mon, 09-10-2007 - 9:25pm |
Most of the women I dated in the past have been either partially shaven, or completely shaven. My DW alternates between completely shaven and a "landing strip." I enjoy either one, because I find her extremely attractive down there, and for me it enhances our sex play. I see the topic of shaving addressed frequently on these boards, and get the impression that trimming to some degree is fairly common. I'm just wondering if shaving or trimming is the new equivalent to shaving legs and arms. In other words, is hair in this area just as unwanted as hair in other areas.

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Welcome to the board rocketman.
I know that 20 years ago, seems no one was doing it. Now, it's all the rage. A lot of women seem to prefer it themselves, so that will probably keep it trendy for a lot longer. I also think younger guys are going to be more used to meeting well groomed ladies, and that will contribute to the longevity of the trend.
My hubby is 54, and he's anti-trimming. I am interested in it, so we sort of compromise. I trim close, but don't go bare. I will say that since I started trimming, I don't think I would ever go back to being completely natural. The hair just traps so many odors, and has other unpleasant side-effects, lol.
I agree with Misty. I had problems with odor. But once I started trimming, that problem is gone. I will shave only on the sides a little (just inside each leg) because so many outfits/bathing suits/etc. are high cut nowadays. I would love to try waxing, because I shave nearly every day (I'm a freak about stubble) and hate it. I just haven't had the money to do it.
I didn't start grooming that area for sex reasons. I did it just for me. But the one sexual benefit to trimming is that I can now feel his touch more in that area. He knows that now so sometimes he will tease me with that before going directly to the labia/clitoris.
Wendy
Wendy
Welcome to the board canamken.
I haven't gotten waxed, but other members have said it's around $50. As far as what's exposed, I'm not sure.
Hopefully other male members (no pun intended) will be along to share with you.
Do you know if these women can and will wax a man's genital region? I really would like to get a wax for two reasons. The obvious one is having complete stranger, and a women, seeing and touching my exposed genital area while performing the waxing. The other is to experience the complete smoothness without any stubble. I just trimmed myself bare this past Saturday and within a day or so, there is already stubble. The beard trimmer really doesn't get me completely smooth.
Another concern I have is getting an erection while she was preparing for and performing the waxing, and along with the erection and the thoughts running though my mind, comes some pre-cum. I often get pre-cum leakage while I am trimming myself because of the look of my bare genitals and thoughts of how it's going to feel during sex later.
The first time I went for a massage, I got this huge erection while the young lady left the room so I could get undressed and under the cover on the table. My mind was racing and heart beating faster as I took off each piece of clothing until I was standing there completely naked in an aroused state with pre-cum starting to appear at the tip of my penis. It was difficult to control myself, knowing that this young women, who is a complete stranger, was about to enter the room see me in this aroused state and begin to massage my naked body. Fortunately I was able to redirect my mind and get the erection down somewhat.
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