SHE FEELS UNLADY LIKE

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Registered: 07-09-2007
SHE FEELS UNLADY LIKE
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Mon, 07-09-2007 - 8:22pm
i am a man in my 40's dating a woman 21. we started out as jusr friends but it turned intimate a few weeks back. i am the first man to give her oral pleasure. i had her propped up at the edge of the bed leaning on some pillows with a dim lite on. she really enjoys it, but she says beinbg able to see my tongue working and seeing her leggs squirming around, she says she feels exposeed and unlady like. she enjoys other sapects of lovemaking. now when i give her oral like this, all the lites have to be turned off, is this normal for a woman this age
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Registered: 08-01-2006
Mon, 07-09-2007 - 8:37pm
Hi and welcome.... I would have to say if you're the first man to do oral on her, she's embarrassed. Just keep assuring her that there's nothing to be worried about, and that she is indeed all lady....


Edited 7/9/2007 8:38 pm ET by nhgal2006



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Registered: 03-31-2007
Mon, 07-09-2007 - 10:21pm

Welcome to the board grickie31.

I think nhgal hit it dead on. The lady you're seeing is young, probably a bit shy too. Often when things are a new experience, it takes a while to become comfortable with them. I'm sure that if the two of you keep dating, she'll become more relaxed. Just keep reassuring her, and if she needs the lights out for now, leave the lights off.



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Registered: 08-01-2006
Tue, 07-10-2007 - 8:47am

Your email is not working... It got bounced back as undeliverable. Here is my response..

Of course I was... Not all women are completely comfortable with their body. No matter what others say, it's sometimes hard to overlook things. If you love her, make sure you keep telling her that, how happy you are to be with her, and how much you love pleasuring her. Maybe instead of low lights, how about a couple of candles, not close to the bed of course....



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Registered: 05-09-2007
Tue, 07-10-2007 - 9:44am
Yes it is normal. I am 51 and there are times when I still feel unlady like when given oral sex. Give her time and she will come around.
Try having her give you oral sex with a small lite and let her know that you enjoy it. And that you like watching her give you oral, and see how she reacts. Janet