she thinks her breasts are too small

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Registered: 01-21-2008
she thinks her breasts are too small
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Mon, 01-21-2008 - 4:21pm
just as the title says.....she thinks her breasts are too small so they are completely off limits for me to see, touch,

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Registered: 03-31-2007
Thu, 01-24-2008 - 10:13pm

Rich, of course we can have differing opinions. A lot of people read the threads here, and I think it's great when they get to see different viewpoints.

I wasn't telling him to call his DW a liar, but I was suggesting that he tell her that it makes him feel like she doesn't believe in HIM when she doesn't take him for his word. It's more like she is calling him a liar.

In the case with your wife, it would have been as if you were calling her a liar had she told you she loved all of you no matter what. I'm sure you realize now that she did love you no matter what. In the case of the OP here, she is so insecure that she can't let her SO see her. That puts a lot of complications into the picture.

I know you have been married for several years, and I know how much you and your wife are in love. It's great that you no longer feel self-conscious around her. Was there a time when you didn't want your DW to see you nude? Do you remember how the two of you worked through what you were feeling?





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Registered: 05-04-2007
Fri, 01-25-2008 - 2:05pm

Sorry, I forgot to use my nice words

Good distraction frees us from emotional pain, bad distraction gives you a mouth full of whizz. ~~~ Guru Tugginmypudha

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