Should I do porn?
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| Wed, 09-15-2004 - 5:11pm |
I took their card with contact details. The money they offered is real good and i've checked out their site and they seem genuine. I'm seriously considering doing it and my friend is keen too. They want us to do a girl/girl video together which would be a bit weird but we are good friends and really comforable with eachother.
At the moment I feel like I want to do it but worry maybe in the future I'll regret it although I'm not sure why i would unless someone close to me found out.
My other worry is that although it is a turn on thinking about it now i might feel a bit cheap afterwards. The description of what she will shoot that she emailed to me is fairly blunt and straight forward - 'Graphic girl/girl video including kissing, fingering, clit licking, anal licking and toys'. I am comfortable with all this stuff (i think!) but the factual crudeness of it all makes me feel like i might feel like a piece of meat afterwards?
Any opinions? Has anyone done anything like this befre or being asked. Advice needed!

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I say as long as you're safe (STDs and shuch) and you go into it assuming *everyone* will see it, you'll be fine. Doing film may not be as hot and titillating as you may think, so don't get disappointed if it starts becoming "a job".
And yes, I've slept with one of those women in the biz. She's the best lay I've ever had. She's open and smart and has a high, healthy, opinion of herself. One thing that can be assured, you can never be called a prude if you do this.
If you and your friend are comfortable with each other and are willing to do this, DO NOT REHEARSE AT HOME. Save the chemistry of first contact for the movie!
My .02 cents.
Muttley
P.S. Lastly, if you want to hear about a female porn star I'd want anyone in the business to emulate, it would be Asia Carrera. She's got her own website so look her up. Hell, she may even answer you if you ask her advice. I have it bookmarked somewhere, so let me know if you can't find it.
http://www.kaisernetwork.org/daily_reports/rep_index.cfm?DR_ID=23223
(doesn't say whether or not any of them wore condoms)
Window Period
The "window period" is the time it takes for a person who has been infected with HIV to seroconvert (test positive) for HIV antibodies.
The Centers for Disease Control (CDC) says about the window period:
"Antibodies generally appear within three months after infection with HIV, but may take up to six months in some persons."
This CDC definition of a three to six month window period has been commonly used for a number of years and is most often used.
What does this mean for you?
The three month window period is normal for most of the population. Many people will have detectable antibodies in three or four weeks. Very, very rarely (i.e., only a few cases ever), a person could take six months to produce antibodies.
You may be anxious to be tested soon after an encounter which you perceive to be risky (and in many cases, the encounter actually isn't risky). You want to know: can I be antibody tested without waiting three months? How accurate is the test after, say, six weeks?
Unfortunately, we don't know.
Think about this: if you got a negative test at six weeks, would you believe it? Would it make you less anxious? If so, go for it. But to be certain, you will need to be tested again at three months.
http://www.sfaf.org/aids101/hiv_testing.html#window_period
-However, all those things are true of the general population as well. The only way to really know is to get ahold of statistics for porn stars and compare them to the same age group.
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