Shower massager

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Registered: 01-07-2007
Shower massager
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Sun, 09-23-2007 - 9:09am

Hi everyone,


Given my epic problems having an orgasm (when I masturbate, I'm "ready" really quickly - and then normally have a 30 minute struggle at that point trying to come! Pillows and quilt kicked on the floor, swapping between my two vibrators... Back to hands again. Back to vibrators! Grrr!!!)


Anyway,

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Registered: 02-28-2006
Sun, 09-23-2007 - 7:45pm
My DW is having an affair with our shower massager. I don't mind at all, as it helps put her in the mood for getting down and dirty with me.


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Registered: 03-31-2007
Sun, 09-23-2007 - 8:45pm

Hi Ginger,

It could be that you are putting too much direct pressure on your clitoris, which can make it feel numb. It's also possible that your head isn't in the right place, especially since you're having the same problem with vibrators. Try experimenting with it and make sure you use lube (with a vibrator), and think of a good fantasy or sexy event that you have enjoyed in the past. In the shower, you can use soap, shampoo, hair conditioner or silicone lube too.










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Registered: 10-18-2001
Sun, 09-23-2007 - 11:03pm
Although, The scary thing is that, someone, somewhere, has probably done the head stand thing to get the water jet 'there'. LOL!


I just get this scary mental image of said person filling up with water......
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Registered: 01-07-2007
Mon, 09-24-2007 - 3:21am

I have the same problem with the 'numb' feeling - I'm forever turning up my vibrator to maintain the sensitivity. I actually tend to have more success if I keep my underwear/pyjama bottoms on whilst I am using it.


Clare.

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Registered: 11-15-2006
Mon, 09-24-2007 - 7:42am

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Registered: 12-12-2006
Mon, 09-24-2007 - 9:53am

I think your biggest problem is that you're making orgasm(s) into a mission.

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Registered: 06-28-2007
Mon, 09-24-2007 - 8:19pm

***Well, I suppose you could stand on your head and be really tall so that the right parts reach the stationary massager, lol.***

OMG Misty....That was probably the best laugh I've had all day...too funny! I am still LOL!

 

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