the shy penis

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Registered: 10-12-2004
the shy penis
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Thu, 12-16-2004 - 9:41am
Ok, probably a dumb question, but can a guy's penis vary a little size when hard, depending on how aroused he is or how shy/nervous he is? I mean, if a guy is very nervous the first time with someone new, can his penis still be hard but just smaller than what it would normally be?
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Registered: 04-23-2004
In reply to: kwhere
Thu, 12-16-2004 - 10:27am

There are times the hardness of an erection will vary.


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Registered: 11-22-2004
In reply to: kwhere
Thu, 12-16-2004 - 9:43pm
I have only had three lovers, each just a few times, so have little insight -- never really noticed the differences in hardness -- but I just now asked my roommate who's had dozens and dozens AFAICT and without batting an eye she basically said very often the first couple of times they do not get fully hard because they are nervous and not just focusing on the passion and pleasure.
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Registered: 10-18-2001
In reply to: kwhere
Thu, 12-16-2004 - 10:07pm

No, not really. It can be sort-of semi-hard and a bit floppy and it'll be smaller then. But if it seems really hard and firm then the size won't change.

Kind like a balloon. If it hasn't got enough air in it, it'll seem smaller and softer and a bit floppier. But when it's got all the air you can get into it in it, it's the hardest and biggest that it'll get.

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Registered: 10-23-2003
In reply to: kwhere
Fri, 12-17-2004 - 12:10pm
When a guy is fully aroused there is not much difference in his size. However since he is obviously new to you what appeared to be fully aroused may or may not be the case. There are lots of reasons a guy will not get fully erect yet still perform normally. Sounds to me though like you are asking if he is going to be any bigger next time. You will be the first to know. Don't forget to let us know.
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Registered: 12-14-2004
In reply to: kwhere
Tue, 12-21-2004 - 4:44pm

Excellent question and the answer is yes... A mans size will vary "a little". maybe up to half an inch or so. Depending on how turned on he is, nervous he is, or the last time he had an orgasm. But many woman won't notice a 1/2 inch much other than its hardness which can count quite a bit to a womans pleasure. a six inch mega hard one feels better than a 8 inch softy I am sure or a 5 1/2 inch softy for that matter....

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