shyness makes things awkward
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shyness makes things awkward
| Fri, 01-05-2007 - 3:30am |
So, heres my situation. I enjoy sex and everything, but i tend to get really shy when it comes to initiating things. I usually do alot of teasing but thats about it. I feel like im incapable of doing more that that, of being able to actually please my boyfriend, and it makes me feel really awkward because then i feel like im not doing enough and i'm letting him down which doesnt help at all. i've tried to get past this shy feeling and i dont know how.
i know that probably doesnt make much sense, but if you understand what i'm trying to say, can you please give me some sort of advice. i really want to get past that feeling but i just dont know how.

I'm not sure what you mean either.
When you say that you tease, do you mean that you flirt but then get shy when it comes to any sexual touch or activity?
I suppose that you can probably tell when he's aroused and responsive? Why not take a little step further and change the non-sexual teasing into sexual stuff? For example, your kissing him and he's clearly getting turned on. Rather than letting him make the next move, try making it yourself and perhaps starting foreplay by unzipping him and giving him oral sex?
As I said, I'm not quite sure what you mean.